Do you really prefer a b*itch? Not the type of b*tch that treats you poorly, but a women you constantly have to chase? Example would be...She doesnt call you, expects you to call her...she makes you go to her and never goes out of her way to see you. See I am confused. Been reading a book "Why men love bitches", and in that book it pretty much teaches women to let the man chase you, dont cook for him, tell him you miss him, etc., because then he will know he has a hold on you. I guess the goal is to always be a challenge. My real question is this. Is that what men really want? Or would you prefer a women who is upfront and honest, goes for what she wants, seems genuinly interested. Someone confident, and isnt afraid to call you and invite you over, or cook for you, and tell you she misses you. Which do you prefer? A challenge or someone upfront and real?
2006-10-03 08:26:13 · 12 answers · asked by Vina C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have a hunting instinct. The behavior you are describing is meant to exploit that instinct. Our rational minds prefer the woman who is honest and genuinely interested, but the one that makes us chase her will always attract our primitive instincts. A good, quality man can recognize the primitive urge and choose to resist it, but it will always be there.
2006-10-03 08:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by gobillybatson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it depends on the guy. There is no real one way to go. Personally for me i prefer the girl who is upfront and real because thats exactly how im going to be with her. The b*tch doesnt work for me because then how do i really know if shes into me or just there for either the money or just for show. So it really depends on the type of guy you're after, but from my experiences most "good" guys would want an upfront and real girl.
2006-10-03 15:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by sephiroth36000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that book is full of crap
aww man and theres more women that read that stupid book
who s the author a woman or a man
us men love to chase a woman of course but not someone that wont cook for us or be there for us
for what be in a relationship
thats torture
nah i prefer a girl is into me like i minto her and who s not afraid to be herself and giving
i like a girl who is honest and upfront with me
someone who will keep me active not home sitting watching tv
2006-10-03 15:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being in this sittuation for the past 8 months now... I'm fed up with the B.S. And after asking questions on here.. I know I'm done now.. I would really like to meat a female that is confident, self suffencent, and not gana twist and pull on my feelings.. But first I got to goto the dump and find my heart again. So therefor I would like a woman to be Open and Honest.
2006-10-03 15:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by dogowner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ive been with my girl for three years now, and she expects me to cook, call her regulary, be sympathetic to her needs, agree with her on everything, do the cleaning, run her bath, visit her family more than mine, ignore my friends, do all the talking on the phone, sort out anyone or anything she doesnt agree with, and generally worship the ground she walks on.
And I do.
Because lets face it, men need women to keep them out of trouble! If I didnt have a girlfriend, there would be no need to keep a job, wash or keep things tidy. I would die alone in a grubby sh!t hole totally off my face on all manner of things. Happy, maybe, but ultimately pointless.
So, I guess the answer would be yes. But maybe these bitchy women need a man to push around, because I know women will only take it for so long, so mayge B!tchy women need men more??
2006-10-03 15:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by lord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest
2006-10-03 15:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get is one thing (and can be a little fun for a little), but when I feel like that is what I'm in for, I lose interest fast. Guys like it when you call out of the blue once in a while, too. There is a fine line there, though.
2006-10-03 15:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have to work at it then I am moving on.
There are plenty of other women that are interested in me.
You need to let the guy know that you appreciate the attention he is giving you, otherwise he'll just move on to someone that will respond to his advances.
2006-10-03 15:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personnaly i love a woman who is up front and isnt b.i.t.ch.y. i would never go for a woman who never says how she feels or wants me to chase her. there plenty more that wont act in that manner. so what kind of woman are you. by the way you look hot baby.
2006-10-03 15:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by leglover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer a women that's upfront tells me what she wants, and how she's gonna get it, But at the same time respect me, trust me care for me and love me how she would want to be treated.Give me your e-mail address all tell you more
2006-10-03 15:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋