how do you know if they are using you or want something else
2006-10-03 08:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by shortybrown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys like girls in general, and if they are rejected by one...then they move on to another....you are only being used if you allow yourself to be used....if you are haveing a mutually satisfying relationship then that is not being used. If you have the feeling that you are being used then just enjoy the other pesons company and don't compromise your values. If you keep the relationship casual and based on friendship ...then it could be a relationship that lasts for life. IF the boy is just interested in sex...then you are smart enough to realize this. If you do find that you have been used then don't beat yourself up...don't be easy and eager to give your heart away...but be generous with friendship.
2006-10-03 08:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why repeat the same old boring questions that have been asked on here litterally thousands and thousands of times already? Nothing better to do? Go look in the relationship sections, or the singles and dating section and read some of the past answers.
Cmon people, take a moment to search the boards before you post.
2006-10-03 08:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he buys you a 2 carat diamond engagement ring in a platinum setting, and gets down on his knees, and looks into your eyes, and says he wants to shack up. Then you know he wants something else. Get the ring appraised before you pawn it.
2006-10-03 08:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he stares at you almost all the time., always tryin to find a way to be near you or touch you. Also when he smiles at you.
2006-10-03 08:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ressa08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll probably do lots of little thing to show they care, like compliments or supporting you at events.
2006-10-03 08:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Morgan<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 36 years old and still haven't figured that one out. Good luck!!
2006-10-03 08:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u don't. u just hope he likes you for you and not something else.
2006-10-03 08:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he stops looking at ur breast and realise u r actually have a face and a brain ,
2006-10-03 08:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When he asks or hints for sex...honestly.
2006-10-03 08:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by joshooog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a problem for all girls, cuz you can't tell. All men are different.
2006-10-03 08:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋