my girlfriend has a hugh "ex" box in her closet full of letters and pictures of her ex's, why do girls need to hold on to this stuff. She says im the best guy she has ever met and tells me about the assholes shes dated and stuff, then why the big *** box of **** to remind them of all these assholes!!!???
2006-10-03 08:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Memories of the ******* sounds weird to a guy, but women are odd critters.
Just try to not be another entry in the box yourself.
2006-10-03 08:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your delema I for instance I love memories and hold on to them dearly but I learned that when you move on you move on that means let the **** behind you my boyfriend now of 5 years let me know that he does not like to hear or see ex boyfriend stuff or anything for that matter. So know my box is there but busy with the new. I understand your girlfriend but she does need to get rid of that old stuff and make you a box. My guy loves the box we have brought it out and laughed about things and remembered good times. But whats in the mind is the best memories. :)
2006-10-03 15:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Box of memories ar usually kept by girls to look back at usually when the break up with the ex wasn't so bad. I used to keep one for every BF i had as long as the breakup wasn't for cheating on his end. These boxes are not good. IF she really loves you- she should get rid of it. Having one of those things is a slap in the face to you. My EX and i were dating for over 3 years and jsut broke up. He and I both had one of those. It's crazy how when people start dating they ask a million "?'s" about their ex's but- in the end- the aswers you get end up haunting you and making you feel bad. I never wanted to know what his exes looked like or if they had sex with my ex and when i found out- i felt bad. I suggest you talk to her real good and ak if she could get rid of it. If you don't even think seh will- little by little get rid of it yourself. I did it with my BF. He wouldn't get rid of Pics and letters so every time i saw him- when he'd go to the bathroom- i'd go to his room and little by little take 3-4 pics or letters at time unitl they were all gone. He never noticed!
2006-10-03 15:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know because i don't hold on to ex's stuff in my point of view a person only holds on to that because there are left over feelings
2006-10-03 15:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know this bothers you... maybe she is one that never lets go of the past! Not good by the way!
2006-10-03 15:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋