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Think before you speak, in the "real world". Do you apply that same practice to this forum??

Be honest, please. Thank you for your answers.

2006-10-03 08:16:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

I appreciate the honesty.

2006-10-03 08:18:46 · update #1

Chanteuse....so nice to see you again!! I'm locked out of my 360 or I'd stop by and say "hi". It'll start working eventually. Glitches.

2006-10-03 08:20:50 · update #2

Pablito and Southpaw....I've never known either of you to be anything other than respectful.

The same goes for many of you here.

2006-10-03 08:23:45 · update #3

fci pitch....only you can know that. It's not up to me to judge.

2006-10-03 08:26:59 · update #4

45 answers

I like that the cat avatars say the oddest things..

I rarely speak in the real world. I'm very shy and I like to blend in with the wall so people won't notice me. So I'm always thinking before I speak.

2006-10-03 08:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 3 0

Some times.

2006-10-03 08:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by caitie 6 · 1 0

I always try to think before I speak & in real life this works for me fine. On the computer we aren't in tune with the other people as well & there are times I know my answers aren't coming through in the tone I want them to. I also feel like an *** when my ignorance of a topic shows through when I make a comment that's taken the wrong way, sometimes it's difficult to tell if folks are serious or not by the way the questions are worded or by the way I percieve them.

2006-10-03 08:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 2 0

Some might say that I'm a bit slow, but I tend to think about and fully evaluate questions asked of me. I am a shaman, a teacher of sorts, to those that are younger than I. As such, it would be irresponsible of me to be impulsive in my answer to a serious question asked of me. I simply am what I am. I live how I believe to be right and tho some might consider me strange or archaic, this is who I am. In my world, or should I say, around me I temper any response with love and compassion toward all. That with a little wisdom and knowledge has carried me thus far. And if for some reason I can not help, then I try not to hinder.

Aho,
Fenix

2006-10-03 10:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Fenix 2 · 1 0

I try as hard as I can in the real world to think first. I fail sometimes. I do think before I 'speak' in this forum. However, I have noticed that there are questions I will answer in this forum that I would probably walk away from if I was face to face with someone. Interesting...

2006-10-03 08:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by newgirlnow 2 · 1 0

I do try my best to think before I speak in the "real world." Unfortunately, because of a few challenges like ADHD and a learning disability, my mouth can sometimes get ahead of my logic. Writing in the forums and writing in general is much easier for me where thinking is concerned. Until I hit the "Send," "Submit," or "Enter" key, my words don't affect anyone. I want what I say to help people not hurt them. And, sometimes in the real world, I can say something thoughtless without meaning to. I try my best to avoid that, but I'm not perfect! :)

2006-10-03 08:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Absolutely. I often read over what I've written here and make several changes before I hit submit. Since I can't do that while speaking I tend to say less, and miss some opportunities to put my two cents in, but at least what I do say comes out how I wanted to say it.

Mind you, this doesn't mean that I never offend anyone. It just means that when I do offend someone, I did it knowing full well that I would.

2006-10-03 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by The Resurrectionist 6 · 1 0

I do tend to think before I speak in the real world, and depending on how challenging the question is, on this forum I think before I answer. Sometimes questions on here do not require much thought at all and sometimes even after answering a question I might find my self thinking about it later on in the day.

2006-10-03 08:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by qwertyu 4 · 1 0

I don't always practice restraint the way I should. However, I do make an effort.

There are two practices which I try to use to keep me out of trouble. First, I try to stick to the topic when I answer a question. Second, I look at some of the other postings to see if I understood it correctly.

Despite what I try, there are the times when I become a smart *** because the question irritates me. I need to watch myself.

2006-10-03 08:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 1 0

Yes, I make it a practice to think before inserting foot! Seriously I try to always think before I speak whether it be in this forum or in real life conversations.Only when I am overly upset do I have a tendency to let my good intentions go out the proverbial window!

2006-10-03 08:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by jeanette98070 2 · 1 0

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