My voice sounds gay and everyone thinks I'm gay when I'm not. This means it's difficult to find a girlfriend because they think I'm gay. So I need help is there a way to change it and why does it sound like that?
2006-10-03 08:09:27 · 17 answers · asked by ??77 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Yes people have said at work that I sound gay. People are asking my supervisor if I'm gay and she asked me if I was. It bugs me so much because I'm not which make it very difficult because there is a girl I really like but she probally thinks I'm gay.
2006-10-04 10:07:06 · update #1
Do voice coach's cost alot of money because I may consider it?
2006-10-04 10:16:19 · update #2
Try a voice coach. For speech impediments and such.
Watched a talk show long ago, where there were these women and one guy who had voicel like a little kid. The coach worked with them throughout the hour, and taught them some ways of speaking that changed their voices.
It's worth a shot!
2006-10-03 08:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend the same way and people always ask me,"Is he gay?" Sooner or later, It'll change don't worry. Just try making a conscious effort to alter your voice when talking.
2006-10-03 15:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The greatest discovery in life is to know thyself. Explore yourself through a counselor.
2006-10-03 15:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by jerry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you sound like Michael Jackson, your voice should have nothing to do with anyone thinking you are gay.
If so many people think you are gay, then you probably are giving them a good reason to think that.
2006-10-03 15:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
i hear Justin Timberlake is going through the same thing(no really!) i suggest using it to your advantage and learn to sing, girls will think you are sexy. Or you can always take some type of speech therapy or hormone pills to lower it, just talk to your doctor first.
2006-10-03 15:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
go to a speech pathologist or voice coach. you probably have affectations in your speech. it's not the tone or pitch. it's like getting rid of an accent.
2006-10-03 15:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by jbgrinder 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a punch bag and use it, it expands the chest and deepens the voice.
2006-10-03 15:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by CPK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
voice coach and a tape recorder....did someone tell you it sounded gay?
2006-10-03 15:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Buy a T-Shirt that reads " I am not gay, I love women"
2006-10-03 15:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by KinfOfPly 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Except the fact that you may be gay these days there is now shame in being a flamer I mean it might be what you are be proud nothing like gay pride go get your man
2006-10-03 15:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by soldierof the 82ndAirborne 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋