Ok. me and my ex are on and off and just recently we broke up again and about to days ago we had gotten into and arguement about another girl. This is to me and more other girls and guys "the school hoe". She flirts with alot of my guy friends and she goes around telling people stuff that isnt true. Me and my ex were talking about how i wanted to fight her and how she messes around with a lot of guys! So he was trying to defend her when almost all my friends dislike her and think she's a hoe. I know for a fact that My ex and her were messing around but i still love him a lot and its hard to be mad at him or ignore him. But now he's ignoring me and his bestfriend is comforting me because he likes me and i like him too but i still like my ex like alot and i dont know what to do. and plus he's ignoring me so i dont know if thats for the best or just for getting in an arguement.so what should i do. Forget about him or what? please help!?
2006-10-03 08:06:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he wants to ignore you. forget him.
2006-10-03 08:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. Let me tell you that I can relate to this story SOOOO well. My ex was really good friends with my ex-roommate. Occassionally I would get a bit jealous when he'd hang out with her, because she is a whore who can't talk to any guy without feeling all over them. She plays guys so much. When I lived with her, she cheated on her boyfriend almost every single night with some random guy. And her boyfriends were guys who were absolutely in love with her and treated her like a goddess. And my ex knew all of this. But for some reason, after a year with me, he decides he wants to start a relationship with whore. Because he's looking for a solid forever relationship....and apparantly hoes make great relationship material. My fears about her were completely validated and he always stood up for her saying "people change". Well, people don't change. People just put on different disguises. TRUST me. If he's interested at all in that other girl, especially if they have fooled around together, forget him. There are so many other guys out there worth your time. If you stay with him, you're only prolonging the inevitable and adding stress to your life. I know it's hard, I'm still not over him. And you'll be angry at him and yourself for a long time, but stay with the decision to end things with him once and for all. In the long run, it will end up causing you less pain.
2006-10-03 15:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by chococherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be studying a little more and you would not have to worry about your ex (ex mean just what it is ex it's over)
he's a kid and that's what kids do, he's a teenage boy and his hormones are all over the place of course he wants the school hoe. and if that's true then why would you want to be with someone that wants to be with the school hoe. maybe you should just face it get back to your classes and forget about the whole thing. oh yeah and maybe just maybe he's just not that into you lol
2006-10-03 15:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUUUDE, let him be with the school whore, so he gets a disease and then she will cheat on him. Meanwhile you will be happy with a new man and forget about him. He obviously doesn't care about you or respect you if he is doing what he is doing. MOVE ON and find something better. Don't even pay attetion to the hoe, if she tries to say anything to her, just tell her you don't want to be anywhere near her in fear of getting an STD.
2006-10-03 15:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you is a man who makes you feel good about yourself! Dating some jerk who's going to ignore you, pay attention to other girls, and make you feel like crap is rediculous.
You don't need him, and you should consider it a blessing that he's ignoring you. Let 'the school hoe' have him. It sounds like they deserve eachother anyway!
Love yourself, and realize you are worth far more than some jerk. You're young, and attractive (i'm guessing), and can find someone better in two seconds!
2006-10-03 15:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is forget about him . B/c if he is messing with the school hoe its a chance that he has the Clap and got it from her.
Delete his number and list his email as spam...
Cut off all communication
2006-10-03 15:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, leave him alone. on and off again relationships are not good. Since you are in, what high school, once you go to college there will be a whole pool of guys so don't stress. keep your head up. And about that guy you like, it seems you already ready to move on. Go ahead, you still young, no need to settle with one guy
2006-10-03 15:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is done with you. He is into other chicks.
Just move on, he takes you for granted because you keep letting him come back. You need to be the one who cuts him off. He sounds like a jerk. If his friend is nice and you like him, spend some time with him instead. If your ex likes you he'll be back, if he doesn't like you then don't keep wasting your time.
Good Luck
2006-10-03 15:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by metevs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should forget about him you know whats lost you will find it better yet if its meant to be it will be just let him go throughh what ever it is that he is going throug and move on its no need to go through break ups in the process all you will get is a head ache
2006-10-03 15:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by nclgivens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kno what?! Forget him and forget the best friend as well!
Move on and find yourself a new man!
2006-10-03 15:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if it was me i will play it his way
dont beg a man to be in ur life if it's ment for u two to be together then it'll work but if not what can u do to change his feeling NOTHING
move on ur young
p.s. maybe he like that girl more then u
2006-10-03 15:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋