I go to school about 4 hours from Chicago.
My boyfriend from home would visit me on the weekends...just about every weekend.
We promised to be faithful to each other - but...for about 3 weekends in a row now ,he called with some lame excuse why he could not come down to see me.
I was getting mad - and frustrated!
Anyhow...a guy from the dorm who i think is a hottie, was flirting with me early Saturday evening. I know I should not have - but i ended up taking him to my room and we had crazy sex for about 3 hours.
Literally 5 minutes after he left - my boyfriend from home called. He was in the lobby...there to surprise me!
I had just enough time to throw some clothes on and do a quick 30 second tidy up in the room.
Of course - my boyfriend had not seen me in 3 weeks - so, he was really really ready to be alone.
I knew I could not say "no"...that would have for sure sent out a signal that something was wrong.
I ended up having sex with him too.
What would you have done??
2006-10-03 07:59:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh...I have only been with 3 men my whole life - I'm not a slut.
The time with the hottie from my school was an error in judgement - i realize that.
2006-10-03 08:01:31 · update #1
You don't deserve a boyfriend.
2006-10-03 08:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good girl. Problem is that now the hottie is gonna wanna hook up every chance he can. Are you gonna tell him no?
I think that you are going to find that you will do it more often.
It is ok. My wife and I went to school separetely and we are perfectly happy now. You can never tell him what happened. If you really aren't interested in your BF I would suggest dumping him so you can have more fun at school. That is what college is for. Just remember to use protection cause you don't want to graduate with more than a diploma.
2006-10-03 08:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I would have done the same as you, lol! But wow, what a night you had!!! I think the issue here is you may be too young to be tied down in a serious relationship. He lives far away, you are tempted and attracted to other men, (and that's not wrong), and you haven't lived your life yet... you have a long way to go, why be in a hurry to be in a serious relationship? You'll figure it out... but be careful next time, haha!
2006-10-03 08:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a pig and a penis loving ho. You got banged in the but by 2 guys in the same day and they came all over you. I cheat on my girlfriend all the time! So don't feel bad because he probably ate some other chick out the night before. It's OK to cheat. Don't worry about it. Maybe you should consider a career in porn and start getting paid for your infidelity ...
2006-10-03 08:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will probably be tossing this around for the next several days and it will eat at you until you tell him. You need to tell him that he was having sex with you right after another guy just finished, so that he has every opportunity to get checked for any STD's that you may have given him with you little cheating session you had... He will probably dump you and you deserve nothing less for what you have done, but just think how bad it will be when he finds he has some STD and he knows you are the only one he has been with...'splain that one...
2006-10-03 08:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Waited on the main man a little longer-at least broke up first! You have already made the mistake now but if you really care for the first boyfriend don't have sex with the other one. CHOSE one of them. I guess you about flipped out like anyone else would have done. Hope you get over this and learn a lesson from it!
2006-10-03 08:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first thing long distant relationships dont ever work so dump the boyfriend who sounds like a headache and have hook ups with the dorm guy safely of course.
2006-10-03 08:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by arizonabrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have no trust in your relationship because you have not seen your boyfriend for so long this thought is in your head that he is cheating on you so you concluded to do the same tking you thought that he was doing you broke your promise of faithfullness with you might as well break up with him too having sex with a stranger is never the answere now you got someone laughing in your boyfriend's hey dude i picked your cherry.expecno sympathy from me.
2006-10-03 08:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have probably just went out and pretended like i had been out wit some friends. ignored his calls tha weekend and then dealt wit it. or maybe i wouldn't have invited da other guy over. i am dealin wit a long distances realitionship my self it could be hard but i would never look for another guy. tha could just simply complicate things. why would i want to be myself through tha again. i noe he made up a lame excuse but ya shouldn't have cheated.
2006-10-03 08:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by simply keshia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet!!! u hve got some skills,girl!! 2 in 1 day.u are givin angelina joline competiton 4 the gramy awards anway i would have dont the same but next time watch out where ur actions take u coz next time that wil be u rather than your boy.keep it runnin! HOT STUFF!
2006-10-03 08:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by dem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinks about this... When I younger I had sex with 4 people back to back. I went from one house to another. (long stupid story) Never had a chance to change or shower. How would you have liked to been the 4th person??? Felt horrible but had a good time. My point...........sloppy seconds SUCKS!!!
2006-10-03 08:09:00 · answer #11 · answered by wayne7in 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋