I ask this because I met a man who rocks my world sexually. i am 38 and have never felt the way this guy makes me feel. He is not available to have a relationship as he is married(my mistake). What worries me is that I will never again experience what i did with him. I was married for a very long time and never experienced anything close with my husband. So can you feel that spark with more than one person?
2006-10-03 07:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by Stephani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you can.......
2006-10-03 07:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual ChemistrycYou've Either Got it or You Don't,
You can fake a cold
You can fake surprise
You can even fake an orgasm
But the one thing you can't fake is sexual chemistry.
It is my firm belief that sexual chemistry between two people either exists or it doesn't and, if it doesn't, it can't be bought,
manufactured, or faked.
Sexual attraction does have biological and evolutionary traits. Yet humans do have the ability to transgress the standardization of what is attractive. We are not fully beyond the basic drives of our biological and evolutionary makeup, yet not all of our desires for a sexual mate are purely physical and material, there is always the mysterious capacity to fall in love and maintain a lasting relationship with one other person.
Yes there is a lot around men who can make u feel like a shining star.
2006-10-03 08:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely...my hubby and I both do, as often as possible, LOL. Sorry, don't mean to make light of your situation. If you're seeking a long-term relationship with that amazing spark, keep looking. A married man is not the way to go.
2006-10-03 07:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Legs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Analyze "the spark". Is it an emotional response to the physical satisfaction? If so, then yes, you can find that satisfaction with another (unmarried) man. You will have to be the judge, both in the bedroom and out, as to who is right for you.
Be patient, your match is out there. Just because your first husband wasn't able to elicit this kind of response from you doesn't mean much.
2006-10-03 08:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible... and even probable, but it's hard to find out unless you sleep with someone. Which brings up the issue of, "how will I know unless I try it?" It's an interesting question, but I think that if you feel connected to someone in many other areas, there's a decent chance you might have good physical chemistry too. But there are no guarantees. Good luck!
2006-10-03 07:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can! It may not be just like the previous relationships. Each person brings something different to the table. So just have a good time getting to know new people. Always expect the best.
2006-10-03 07:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - you can - I have chemistry with several girls. I am not saying I am this big stud - I mean I have real strong chemistry with several ladies and they are all different in many ways. The chemistry is build on how you build your relationship, the things you share, the experiences.
2006-10-03 07:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O M G--- YES!!! Im married and I have sexual chemistry with MANY other women and men. So... Its def possible.
PS: just to make my self more clear on this... Sexual chemistry does not mean I sleep with all those many men and women... I just have a chemistry of sorts with them.
2006-10-03 07:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've felt that spark with at least three women and I'm only 34.
2006-10-03 07:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! You might have had more "FUN" because he is married. I mean that might have been a trill. You know like sneaking out the house of something.
2006-10-03 07:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely. Don't give up but absolutely stay away from married men , they tend to have mean jealous wives ... probably because they screw around on them so much ... hm mm think about that. You will find him.
2006-10-03 07:57:57 · answer #11 · answered by debbie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋