ok...here it is...ive been with my girlfrind now for about a year...her ex is in jail and has been for the past 2 yrs...she broke up with him when we got togther (she did i read the letter he sent her after!) well ok...she has dated a couple of people while hes been in there and told me she had told him about the other guys....today i found a box in her room with all the letters he has sent her and i read them all and nowhere does he mention that hes mad or jealous that she dated other guys...he never even mentions another guy...so my question is....did my girlfriend lie to me about him knowing about her dating and if so should i be concerned that she might lie to me about other stuff??
2006-10-03 07:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether or not she told him about you is not the issue here. It seems the bigger issue is your urge to sabatoge the relationship for some reason. If she told you a little white lie to make you feel more secure or comfortable in the relationship, then so be it. But that does not justify you going through her personal property.
It also seems you may have had a feeling she didn't tell him about you, or else you would not have gone to such legnths to make sure she did. You obviously have trust issues with your girlfriend, and that is far more important than whether some guy that she's dumped two years ago knows about you.
Ask yourself why you feel it's so important for him to know about your relationship....is it perhaps because you feel like she still has feelings for him, or maybe that you are worried he's better than you? If you aren't worried about those things, then there shouldn't be a problem. Grow up and talk to her about your trust issues! Without trust you have NOTHING!
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2006-10-03 07:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has lied to you! He would be extremely pissed off if he found out she's been dating other guys the whole time of his incarceration. I put money on it that she has told him she can't wait to be with him when he gets out and that there are no others. I would be very cautious with a girl in this type of situation. Why are they still corresponding with each other? Has she been to visit him? Be careful!
2006-10-03 07:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is talk to her, she may be a bit mad you read all her personal letters. the question you have to ask yourself is, does it really matter if she told him or not? is it that important. he is in prison so his writings to her can not exactly be trusted now can they.and there is a possibility that he genuinely didn't care that she had, he probably knows expecting her to stay faithful whilst he is locked up is not the right thing to ask her to so.if she did lie its not a huge one now is it and there may have been a reason for it, white lies are usually told to protect peoples feelings, stop them getting hurt. talk to her
2006-10-03 07:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't continue dating anyone who kept in contact with an ex who was in jail. I don't think I'd want to be around when the guy got out and came looking for her. I think she lied and is lying about how often she writes to him, and what she's telling him.
She might be lying to you about other stuff, too.
2006-10-03 07:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy in prison, maybe he realizes that he will never see her again, or that it is over, and maybe he has found a new love named bubba and doesnt care.
2006-10-03 07:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, what I would be more concerned about is whether or not this guy is going to shoot you when he gets out.
2006-10-03 07:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no cuz the ex, being in jail, prolly blocked out thinking about her with another guy. he prolly thinks their still together.
2006-10-03 07:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her...! I wish it were possible to have a true friend of the opposite sex.
But it isn't unfortunately.
2006-10-03 07:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋