my dad has known a black women named kris for 3years they love each other I want her to be my mom.people stare at us all the time when we are together I'm happy they see it. there getting married around January. Do u think the marrige will last?
2006-10-03 07:37:17 · 23 answers · asked by lowrida 4 lyfe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Congrats to your dad, yes it can last. I'm in a interracial marriage,(Hispanic) Love him dearly, and don't give a flying _____ what anyone else thinks.
2006-10-03 07:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes I believe the marriage will last. If they love each other neither one could care a less about what other people think. Some people are very cruel and mean in their thoughts. Who cares? I am a caucasian and I have been married to a hispanic for 29 years, so my wife and I are a perfect example for you.
This should be a non issue for you. Give your 100% loyalty to your dad and your future step mother and the hell with what other people say or think. Screw them, right? Am I right or wrong?
You know I am right. Good Luck and Congratulations to your dad and your future step mom and to your new family.
2006-10-03 07:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether they are black white or purple you won't get a great answer to this question. If there love is strong..the marriage will be in great shape. Who cares what people think of her color. I am actually surprised that there are people out there that still care. That sucks!! If you and your dad are happy then don't let anything stand in your way!!!! Love her just like you would anyone else!! Good Luck
2006-10-03 07:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love innerracial marriages! I think it's beautiful that people don't care about the outside, but rather the inside. We all bleed the same! Yes, I think the marriage will last, because I know a few couples that have lasted for a long time, and they are not the same race. Think positive, and don't worry! I'm happy that you're happy about this! Take care!
2006-10-03 07:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by I'dlike2know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the word black out of the equation and interracial and then ask the same question. If the feelings are genuine and the love is strong...then the marriage will last, the color of the skin is irrelevant, we all feel love, hurt and joy the same way. I hope your fathers and step-mothers relationship is an example of a long standing and loving marriage.
2006-10-03 07:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do. if two people love each other they shouldn't worry about what others say. I've been with my boyfriend (I'm black and he's white) for four years and in the beginning I was a little spectacle but I'm happy as a clam. I love him so much. But then again I never been into peoples color anyhow...
2006-10-06 14:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by odannigurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we people are created because the finest creation through God.. we shouldnt decrease ourselves and act like brainless animals in instincts and bypass about having sex with anybody.. sexual sex is a sacred act it quite is shared between 2 married human beings, sanctioned through God.. its a blessing in a wedding ceremony, a sin outdoors a wedding ceremony.. fornication (sex outdoors marriage) tears up the fabric of society.. There might want to be ailments, unplanned pregancies, adultery of married couples who've affairs, there's a lot that may bypass incorrect.. if the guy loves you, then he will marry you earlier having sex.. if he doesnt favor to get married, then for sure he in elementary words needs you for sex.. He knows this and is using you as his sense good toy.. he will use you , then toss you again.. Now having suggested this.. Allah is forgiving.. once you've a previous, then quit immediately what you're doing, dont have sex outdoors of marriage again.. pray for forgiveness and commence performing like a ideal muslimah.. and Allah will forgive you..
2016-12-04 04:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, love is love. It doesn't matter what color you are. It matters how you get along and how you treat each other. There's bigger issues in relationships to deal with. As long as you stay focused on each other and don't get too involved with what other people say, I don't know why it wouldn't last forever. Just love each other, respect each other, and honor each other. I don't think you have to be of the same race to do that.
2006-10-03 07:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in today's world, race matters only to a few people, and they don't matter to you and your world. your dad and kris love each other, you want her to be your mom, so you must love her too, and they are getting married.couples fail for all sorts of reasons, so i can't say if this one will last. it sounds like you, your dad, and kris have a lot going for the success of this marriage, so just focus on that
2006-10-03 07:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Debi K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is convoluted anyway! !! So who knows what will last, the difference in race might not even be an issue!!! But to be candid, be prepared for bigots and future stares. Just stare back. Look at it this way, she is kriss, not black, purple, green or yellow kris, as you are whoever you are, not colour jane, or whatever.
No offence!! What about ur mum? Have u spoken to her about this issue?
Anyhoo!! Good luck
2006-10-03 07:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by flaky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All that matters is their feelings for each other. If they love each other above all else and are willing to work at the marriage, then it can absolutely last. No one has the right to judge and if they stare just ignore it. When we are happy no one else matters.
2006-10-03 07:43:00 · answer #11 · answered by bvml 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋