there's a guy that i've dated before. now, he's asked me back out. my friends told me that if i did go back out with him then they would disown me. he'd the type of person who they think can be questioned on their sexualtiy. they think he may be bi. i'm so confused and i don't know what to do. Please help.
2006-10-03 07:28:32 · 22 answers · asked by confused_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Choose the ones that don't make you choose. A friend of mine lost one of his closest friends because his wife was an insecure bi+ch. Now he is divorced from his wife and he already lost that other friend.
2006-10-03 07:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our friends usually have our best interests at heart and can usually see things from a perspective that we cannot see because we are too close to the situation. Disowning is a little extreme so if they are willing to go that far I would say you should probably reexamine the situation and then make the choice tha makes YOU happy. If yo udo go out with him, give them time they may change their minds if you are really happy with him. Myself , My friends are the kind that I would trust with my life, so if they see a red flag I would be inclined to listen.
2006-10-03 07:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they think there is a good reason then listen to them because a good friend will only try to make your life good.
If you think he is bi, then don't. Because if you marry a bi you will end up divorced.
I have heard many women married to bi sexual men who do not have a good sex life because he would have had sex before he comes home and will not be interested in you. Its another form of adultry.
Think well or you are the one who will suffer
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2006-10-03 07:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dated him before, there had to be a reason that it ended. Think about why it ended before and decide what you think would be best for you. If they are your friends, it won't matter who you date. They might remember something about the previous dating period that you don't. If it is only their perception of his sexuality, than that is ridiculous. They need to accept your decision and be your friends...If they don't than they really weren't your friends to begin with.
2006-10-03 07:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends have no right to tell you how to live your life no matter how well intentioned it seems to be or they think they are being. Only you can do that, and you make your own choices. If they are true friends they will stand by you and respect your choice. What they think holds no bearing, or shouldn't on what you do.
2006-10-03 07:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends won't be friends with you becuase you're dating a certain guy then ditch them.
However, my friends didn't like my ex, and they were totally right. Listen to your friends, explain to your guy your concerns and your friend's, and see what he says. Just use your judgement and common sense. If you get a bad feeling about it, don't do it.
2006-10-03 07:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're friends can't disown you. You friends should support your decision, no matter what the outcome.
If you make a mistake, then you would have learned from it.
2006-10-03 07:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by marypaz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your friends have always been there for you and know that you shouldn't be with him. If it didn't work out the first time you dated him, then what makes you think it'll work the second time around. Never look back & always go forward !!!!
2006-10-03 07:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Littles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are your friends really doing that well running their own lives that they can take time out to run yours as well? Mine don't have that kind of time to spare.
Make your decision of how he has treated you in the past, and on how you feel...let your friends live their own lives.
2006-10-03 07:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋