Am I polite or impolite?

Question

what should I do or say if at the public pool shower and some parent walks his two year old daughter into the shower and I get a erection?

Answer 1

1. It would be polite to say "Excuse me, you notice I have an erection? It is beyond my power to control because I am attracted to your little girl's nakedness."

2. It would be impolite to day "Get the hell out of here with that fetching child as she is causing me to have this uncontrollable erection!"

3. It would be wise to say to yourself "Why am I getting an erection over seeing a naked child. Could I perhaps have something wrong with me? I think I will stay away from the pool and any other place I might see children that excite me including web-sites and I will immediately make an appointment to see my doctor who can refer me to a therapist who might be able to help me get over this. If not, I must never get myself in a position where I might become a child molester."

Answer 2

The parent must be male and should not bring his daughter into a male oriented shower or public washroom. Having said that I think that there is something wrong with you if you get an erection from looking at a 2 year old child and should seek counceling. You are showing signs of being a pedophile, I am not name calling but watch your step you will be reported you are not following community guidelines.

Answer 3

I wouldn't say it was weird to be having an erection because of u seeing a 2yr old girl. For all you know there might be tons of people out there with the same problem. Just make sure you reduce the amount of "weird" things you watch with your eyes as they are mostly the main source of reactions like that. And try seeking some therapy with ur sex life coz it might become a big problem for you if not dealt with. And oh! so you know it is impoliteto do that.

Answer 4

[Everyone on here is attacking you. Geez. Be mature people. This is probably more common than girls not in the know would like to know about!]

It is natural to have some curiosity about girls' private parts, especially if you had little or no circumstances with them growing up. If you have an erection, I would say just don't say anything and go on as if nothing is happening. If it is a close friend (father of the girl), then based on your history of talking to each other you could do something like this:

Meet his eye contact with your eyes, kind of glance down at the erection, say something "guy guy" like "Can't stop thinking about a girl (or say her name) I like! Sorry to blush like this!"

Good luck with those feelings. And never coerce a girl under 18 into any kind of sexual circumstance.

Answer 5

I wear heels to work, and while sitting at my desk (in my office) I will kick them off. No one ever knows. If I should get up from my desk, they go back on. Even if I'm just getting up to close the blinds... Is this a school/college library? Because although I never did it, personally, I don't think walking around barefoot is any more tacky than coming in 3 day-old dingy pj's. Also, consider where you are a large snooty NY school? Or a small Texas every one knows every one school.

Answer 6

I really don't know if this was a serious question or just asked for it's shock potential. But I will treat it as if it were.
If two year old children cause you to become sexually excited you should slit your wrists now and save numerous children the possibility of you rising to your potential as a child molester.
You will cause nothing but pain and heartache in this world. better to end it now before you have ruined any lives other than your own.
I realize this seems harsh and most people would advise that you seek professional help. But there is no help, there is no cure. Just end your life now.

Answer 7

Say nothing to the parent, call a therapist and seek some help. Or was it the guy you were looking at? Still you may need some help before you do something you can not return from!

Answer 8

Ewwwwe!! Face the other way creepO! Or maybe you shouldn't go to the public pool! Don't shower naked at the public pool. Do that at home!

Answer 9

WTF is wrong with u? The question isn't are you or aren't you polite.The proper question for you to be asking right now is 'where can i seek immediate professional help for having pedifile thoughts about a 2 yearold?'
YOU ARE SICK! People like you are the reason people like me have a VERY hard time trusting ANYONE around my children. PLEASE seek help, you are a danger to children. AND I PRAY TO GOD OR WHOEVER IS OUT THERE LISTENING.....that you haven't ever (I MEAN EVER!!!) even had any thought about a child like that. And guess what....if you have....you will get yours....Kharma is a *****. And again....you are a sick individual.

Answer 10

Is the erection from the parent or the 2yr old?