my boyfriend has a baby on the way in dec and I,ve been with him since aug and he tells me he loves me and I think he means it butim so afraid hes gonna look at this wonderful little life and feel diffrentley he is the best thing that has ever happen to me and I do love him??????????
2006-10-03 06:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by lovely_lightskin 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Are you even hearing yourself?
Do you mean he can only love you or the baby? not both?
What you are afraid of is that he will have a relationship with the baby's mother.
Well if he is any kind of father he will.
But how can he be when he is already with you and the child is not even born yet?
Somebody better grow up in this relationship or the baby will be the most mature one of the bunch.
2006-10-03 07:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Coolgrandma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask what do I do about this? There is nothing you can do about it. The baby is not going away, if your b/f says he loves you and has given you no reason to believe otherwise then you are worrying about nothing. It is quite possible for him to love his child and Love you at the same time. I think what you are really worried about is will this cause him to get with the mother of his child. This is a possibility but if she is his ex there is probably a reason.
2006-10-03 14:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after the baby is born a lot of things can change and be prepared for that to happen, He can go back to his ex and work things out. A lot of men have a change of life when they see their little one...Be cautious is all!
2006-10-03 15:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are taking a chance here. You know how girls always tell one another not to get involved with a guy who has a baby's mama. It is true. I know this from experience with other guys who had them and now I have one. I am off and on with my sons father and he tells all the girls he dates that he can't have a serious relationship with them because he is waiting on me to come back to him.
2006-10-03 14:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by kristi.burkhart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can love both. I mean what if this was your kid would you want him to choose? Give it up and deal with it. Do not try to keep him away from the baby either, that would be horrible
2006-10-03 14:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone after being with them less than two months?
2006-10-03 14:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by bradys_mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel but also let him know your ok with him having a baby and that you want to be there to help him and if he really cares about you hell stick around
2006-10-03 14:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋