2006-10-03 06:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by annagram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure your not mistaking your "love" for lust, unfortunately thats what happens and the whole situation ends up in tears =(
but happiness has occured for some people so with a bit of luck that might be the case for you =)
2006-10-03 06:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure you love him? Why do you feel the need to ask strangers to validate your feeelings for him? I knew within hours that I had met the man of my dreams, and he felt the same - he moved in with me within 48 hours of us meeting for the first time and proposed after 5 days! We've now been married for two years and haven't even had an argument yet!! Sometimes you just know when it's the real thing, no matter how cynical other people can be. Everyone is different and what may happen to some people may not necessarily be true for others. Enjoy it - I truly hope it's the real thing for you, and that he feels the same. Good Luck & Blessed Be.
2006-10-03 16:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by devildriver53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time isn't really relevant with love. I think I loved my fiance within a day or 2, but some drama happened, so I waited a while to tell him. Still even during the drama, I knew their was something their! Just make sure that it's the real thing, lose the rose colored glasses, and if you still feel the same way, you love him! CONGRATS!
2006-10-03 13:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be caught up in the romance. To be sure you love him, you have to have the physical attraction but also make a list of his good qualities, such as concern for you, honesty, etc. and then list his more unattractive qualities and see what you come up with. If he does great on your list, then pursue the relationship. If not, you are "in love" and do not really love this person.
2006-10-03 13:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I only ask because as I have aged (now the ripe old age of 42) I have realised that most of the times I have thought to have been in love - it was just the first flush of lust and the honeymoon period. So often I have got it wrong - and of course there are some of us who are in love with love.
2006-10-03 13:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Helen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is based on two bodies smelling one another's sweat in which the genes are tranisted, depending on what you have been doing you may have smelt enough of his sweat for your biological body to recoginse this person as a good match to your genes. Providing your body with feelings of extenened attraction and in this case a feeling of love, due to your body recoginising his and your genes mixing to proivde good strong children.
Sort of like the survival of the fittest. It's all about sweat.
2006-10-03 13:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by karkigrannyknickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like age, time is just a number. Who's to say what is the correct length of time before you feel anything for anyone. We're all different. If you're sure you're in love enjoy it, just be careful.........
2006-10-03 14:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid to say that you are just getting caught up in the moment. What you feel is lust not love, true love takes time to develop.
2006-10-03 13:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by natashia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband felt the same way about me! We`ve been married 7 happy years! There is no real answer to your question ..you just know!
Congratulations!
2006-10-03 13:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think about him constantly and your heart pounds when you think of him, and everyday your apart hurts, then yeah you are in love!
2006-10-03 18:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋