how can i slow this down and not "finish" so fast?
help....
2006-10-03 06:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You have to practice control and be aware of your body. You may need to slow down and concentrate on your partners satisfaction instead of how good you feel. You could also try to masturbate more often. Sorry if that was to blunt.
2006-10-03 06:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by mystic4624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate and stop before you ejaculate then after you settle down a little do it some more. Make sure you allow yourself to ejaculate at some point. Do this every day for a while and your body will get the message and slow down. The long term pleasure is well worth it. This is called training your balls.
2006-10-03 06:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be able to try the creams and stuff to stay hard longer, maybe pills.
Try a cock ring I heard that they make you abstain from ejaculation but you just have to monitor how long you keep it on.
You can practice self control to abstain from ejaculation.
When you feel like you are going to n*tt, slow down and try a lil' foreplay and continue with the act of sex.
Hope this helps
2006-10-03 06:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom, a thicker one. The book "The One-Hour Orgasm" by Lean and Bob Schwartz Ph.D. it give great exercises and suggestions to help with premature ejaculation. It uses physical and mental exercises. Another thing to do is work on her either until she has an orgasm, that way when you go quickly, you won't need to feel like you left her unfulfilled.
2006-10-03 06:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try learning meditation, yoga will help you do this, it will also teach you some tantric practices to help you keep your self control in check. Good luck i know it can be quite a problem for some fella's.
2006-10-03 06:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever tried a "practice run"? You know, ejaculating before you know you are going to see him/her later? It helps. Or distract yourself from whatever it is you are doing. Stop and take a break.
2006-10-03 06:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by ZsMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually best to get the first one out of the way, then you can take ages with the second one coz it takes a while for the girl to get there too.
2006-10-03 06:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by lottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...doctors will tell you one thing, but I'll give you one guy's advice. Oh, boy...OK...at least an hour before intercourse, masturbate. You will be able to have an erection during intercourse, but if you "drain the lizard" first it will buy you time for your next...um...deposit. Geez...I can't believe I said that. But it's true advice.
2006-10-03 06:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Realvocalist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...how many times can you ***? usually the second time doesn't go as fast as the first. If you are over 18, contact me and I can show you some good technique
2006-10-03 06:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by kooldog1000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn self control. It's a mental thing.
2006-10-03 06:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋