2006-10-03 06:17:15 · 20 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you keep him in love with you ?
2006-10-03 06:18:26 · update #1
=You can do nothing. Love is a 2 way street. Seems like this is a one sided love affair and you are unfortunately the looser. If he really did love you he couldn't please you enough. Sorry for your situation. In time you will heal. If it was meant to be it would have been. Best of luck.
2006-10-03 14:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on... You cant keep him in love with you, Love doesnt work that way! You just need to find someone that will never fall out of love with you. Make some new friends... Get out there and live life!!! No one is promised tomorrow. Hope I could help!
2006-10-03 13:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make him..it's going to happen..just a matter of time.
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
2006-10-03 13:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have someone keep loving you, if they don't. I know it's hard, but the worst thing you can do right now, is stay with him in hopes that he finds love for you again.
If you love him, let him go. That's all you can do right now. Give him time, if he needs it. In the meantime, hang out with people that do love you! :) Best of luck!
2006-10-03 13:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Activities outside the relationship is a must. Chances are, you're spending too much time with each other.
Give yourselves breathing room and you'll fall back in love with just the littlest things you do together.
2006-10-03 13:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there's nothing you really can do once a person doesnt feel the same anymore. The best thing to do is just "let it go" as hard as that may be...but sometimes people go through phases, and if he realizes that he's making a mistake, then he'll be back.
2006-10-03 13:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant i am afraid! but do u want someone that doesnt really love u?? dont u want someone that loves u just as much?? maybe u guys need a break from eachother... let him figure out what he is missing!! Dont chase him that will only drive him away, just give him time to figure out what he wants.. if he loves u he will miss u like crazy and want u back!! tell him how much u love him and that he needs to figure out what he wants....
good luck!! hope it works out for u!!
2006-10-03 13:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you yourself needs to step back from the relationship and see if it really is worth saving. but you can't make someone love you no matter what you say or how much sex you have. and if it doesn't work out with this one, there will be another guy just around the corner!! always follow your heart
2006-10-03 13:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First look for reason what is the real cause. Give in only to the extent your self respect permits. Because there will always be sunshine after the darkness. Don't hang on to him unnecesserily as you have full life ahead to look forward to.
2006-10-03 13:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Naresh C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't and you won't want to after long. Everything happens for a reason and remember you can't control another persons emotions. Don't let him keep you dangling though, if it's come to that, ditch him and know that love will find you.
2006-10-03 13:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋