i have read if you do what feels good to you then you will please your lover in the process...do you do what feels good and right to you or do you 'perform' for your lover?
2006-10-03 06:10:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For both!
2006-10-03 06:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to sex, it's give and take. If your partner isn't into satisfying your sexual needs, and is just going through the motions, then what incentive do you think you'll have when it's your turn to please her? You have to enjoy pleasing your mate, and in doing so, you will see how much she appreciates how giving you are, it will then make him or her very eager to return the favor. Sex is a beautiful thing and should always be enjoyed in company of others or alone.
2006-10-03 13:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learn what she likes, and give that as best I can, but always I try and do what pleases them. I am pleased on the process, but in my mind, my pleasure is secondary.
2006-10-03 13:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take care of my lover first
2006-10-03 13:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by turner32542 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I perform for him then myself and then him again! We have a process..
2006-10-03 13:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Firemans_Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do what feels good and pay attention to the response I get from her.
2006-10-03 13:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only really consider oral sex to be a performance. And then all I'm hoping for is not to choke.
2006-10-03 13:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love pleasing her first! I like hearing her moan in pleasure.
Besides, I know that if she enjoyed it, she will reciprocate!
2006-10-03 14:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd do anything she wanted me to do (so long as it's not illegal) but I wouldn't expect her to do anything for me, if she cared enough she would know what I wanted without me having to ask.
2006-10-03 13:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ben R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To please my lover, then I get turned on because he's having a great time. Then we are both satisfied. :)
2006-10-03 13:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by newgirlnow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋