well i dated this guy for the summer.. and then we broke up a couple months after that then we got back in aug! well he left me for this girl i dunno its sounds sad n i was i coould not do any thing i was so up set with out him i dint know wat to do any more how i could go on with out him! then he started talking to me again and sayin he wants to be with me and stuff wat to do!
2006-10-03 05:53:12 · 15 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go back to him. He had no concern for your feelings, don't put yourself through that again.
2006-10-03 05:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer. First you did not miss him when he went with another girl. You were so pissed thinking you were not good enough to keep him you endoulged in self pitty. The real point is you are way better than he will ever be. If you choose to go back with him I promise he will leave you again for another girl because he knows you will always take him back.
2006-10-03 12:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate this sort of guys. As a guy myself I wouldn't do anything like that. Its your choice: either come back to him and after couple of months he can leave you or just ignore it and say Im over you. He treated you like nothing dear and he will not change (Im sorry to say that).
He has no serious intentions and he just uses you in the time when he can't find another girl. Im sorry again and hope that helps.
Wolfy.
2006-10-03 13:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past behaviour usually dictates future behaviour. Buddy wants the best of both worlds. He'll always be on the prowl for the bigger better deal.
2006-10-03 13:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very careful getting back with that guy. It sounds like he knows you will take him back so he keeps playing with your feelings. I say make him work for another chance with you. I think you could find better.
2006-10-03 12:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be careful getting to attached especially after what happened in the past. If you want to go out with him again fine do it, but don't let him know that it is exclusive and don't let him know that you are that into him until you know for sure he is that into you.
2006-10-03 12:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He sounds like he is always looking for the BBD (bigger, better deal). Ask yourself this, "Do I really want to hook up and break up every 3 months?"
2006-10-03 12:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hes not allowed to talk to the girl he left you for and tell him if he wants to be with you then he has to keep his promise that he wants to be with you by being with you as much as possible and spending the majority of his time with you
2006-10-03 12:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by mandi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why you woman let these no good guys get the best of you.it's his lost take care of yourself you'll meet some one much better who will Cherise your time.
2006-10-03 13:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds so familiar! well anyways, I'd like to be optimistic about this and say that he realized he screwed up and really cares about you, however the truth is that he probably just wants you for one thing! ignore him and move. or you can ask him straight up what he wants?
2006-10-03 13:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋