a while ago my boyfriend didnt call me for 5 days, obviously i was worried, and when he finaly called me back all was fine, he said he was buisy. There is no way i would be so buisy to not call him for almost a whole week, has anyone done this, and what were you actualy doing. i have no evidence to suggest cheating, so i chose to let it go, but now a few months later its bugging me. Why didnt he call for 5 days, what was he doing, any ideas?
2006-10-03 05:52:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know but if my boyfriend didnt call me for 5 days and did not give me an explanation I would be pretty pi**ed off and saying your busy is ridiculous at least he should have come up with something better than that.
2006-10-03 05:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been dating? If not long--don't worry about it, he probably was busy. If it's been a while--I would get to the bottom of this! I was dating this guy, every now and then I wouldn't hear from him for days. I was friends with his family and so I asked them what was up and they told me that he was really having feelings for me and he needed to step back for just a couple days, he wasn't at a point in his life where he felt financially or emotionally ready for the next step and not to worry about it. I gave him his space every time he did this and now he is living with a woman who has 2 kids and his family knew all about it!!! Keep your eyes peeled sister!
2006-10-03 13:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by bunya00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but your over thinking the situation, heavily. When someone doesnt call u, they dont wanna talk, it doesnt necessarily mean they're a cheat. Granted, he couldnt took 5 minutes out of his day to check on u, but, if ur obsessing like this, its no wonder he didnt call u.(no offense)
Look, if he starts treating u different, if he stops coming around, etc, then question his whereabouts, but dont go jumping to tacky conclusions, the man will think ur just another nutty chick
2006-10-03 12:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he sit there and explain to you what exactly it was that he was busy doing for 5 days that he couldnt even call you to say hi, im alive im ok dont worry? If it's still bothering you tell him so, say you were worried and appreciate it that it didnt happen again because it makes you thing he's doing bad things.
2006-10-03 13:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was upset with you for some reason and didn't want to talk. Maybe he wasn't sure about the relationship and needed some time alone to think.
2006-10-03 12:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it. He probably had other problems to take care of. Have you ever asked him what exactly he was doing? Try to explain to him how you feel and it would probably make more sense to both of you how much you care about each other.
2006-10-03 12:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ledbetter Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any boy to busy to call his girl is not worth your time
2006-10-03 13:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is trust an important part of you relationship? if so, stop worrying he just got tie-up from work and his phone got busted or something.
2006-10-03 12:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lok2Lok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you honestly think he's not cheating then maybe he just needed some time to himself to think about stuff or be with his friends. why dont you ask him about it?
2006-10-03 12:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart....I think you already know the answer.
2006-10-03 12:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋