Why does love change? Why something which started off so miraculously beautiful and perfect ends almost that spark had never existed??? And why either of us change the feeling although we both believed that we were so meaned to be?
2006-10-03 05:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because as time goes by you learn more about the person, they're not the flawless, perfect angel that our infatuation makes them seem. They'r real and they can be annoying, or jealous, or a liar...but in the beginning no one sees that. Thats why its called a "honeymoon" stage. Romantic Love is different than Real Love. Romantic Love is what happens in Cinderella...when she gets swept off her feet...Real Love is when she goes to the castle and discovers the Prince farts in his sleep. And shes okay with it. I dont think finding the right person has anything to do with all those butterflies you feel the first weeks in...it's who is going to be your best friend, and understand you and who can dal with all your crap. If someone can do that thats true love. Not the giggles.
2006-10-03 05:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answere's you seek may come as a surprise to you,but both parties are parshally to be blame for putting out a spark .when you light a fire if you do not feed that flame it will be smothered and then die, compromising in a relationshipis the key factor in keeping it alive love never changes, individuals change and sometimes infatuations mixed in with emotions can be misguided as the perfect love do not give on love it's still out there.
2006-10-03 13:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is that your both selfish and you need to talk and set up some compromise's. Your the star in your mind and the same applies to your lover. Remember your effected by what your lover does and your behavior affects your lover. Remember this.
in layman's terms: Stop getting upset when something happens that you don't want.
2006-10-03 12:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when a relationship is new you have the magic of discovering each other but eventually its has to change into some thing deeper than just being new a spark doesn't always start a fire you have to fan it and work it to make it ignite.
2006-10-03 12:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by texasjeramyholdem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats life. It doesnt happend to everyone though...Maybe he wasnt the person for you, it was not meant to be. Love is something that is always changing, it tests you, makes you feel sooo good and at times can make you feel like total 5hit. Its gamble! something that cant really be explained..just take for what it is - amazing (both + and -)
2006-10-03 12:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're not meant to be with that person. when you find the one for you then that spark will never go out!
2006-10-03 12:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt always take that course but often times it does. it simply means that it was never meant to be for the two of you.
2006-10-03 12:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIMES CHANGE AND PPL CHANGE.. THERES NO EXACT ANSWER TO "WHY DOES LOVE CHANGE". ITS A MYSTERY IN LIFE THAT NO ONE CAN ANSWER..
2006-10-03 12:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because people change.
2006-10-03 12:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by beckray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is one of those mysteries of life..
2006-10-03 12:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋