I AM DATING A MAN 13 YEARS OLDER THAN MYSELF WHO CAN NOT HAVE ANY MORE CHILDERN AT FIRST IT DIDN'T BOTHER ME BUT NOW IT'S REALLY MAKING ME WANT TO RECONSIDER THIS RELATIONSHIP I HAVE ONE CHILD BUT WOULD LIKE ONE MORE. I CARE FOR HIM A LOT BUT I HAVE TO THINK ABOUT MY FUTURE WOULD IT BE WRONG TO BACK OUT NOW?
2006-10-03 05:12:29 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first ask yourself 2 questions..do you love this man?? does this man love you?? if the answers are yes? get married and adopt or ask your doctor about other ways to have another child.but make sure you both want this together..
2006-10-03 05:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by bullfrog112491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never wrong to end a relationship if it is not right for you. However, it is never easy either. But, what is? Life is hard, with some easy stuff along the way, but for the most part, each day we live takes a lot of thought.
2006-10-03 12:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not married then there is no "wrong" time to back out.
You should not marry a person you are not 100% confident you will be happy with.
Marriage does not FIX problems, if anything it only makes them worse.
2006-10-03 12:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honesty is important and you guys need to talk about your options. What about aritificial semenation??? There are other ways to get what you want. Don't leave him.
2006-10-03 12:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you KNOW you want more children then back out now! The longer you wait the harder it will be.
2006-10-03 12:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Be honest. If he respects your feelings then he may be the man for you, if he is a donkey's butt about it, he is not th eman for you. One kid is enough. Adopt maybe.
2006-10-03 12:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hent ur husband n if he loves u a lot then his inability to give u a child is not his fault. u shud not leave him IF HE LOVES U.
2006-10-03 12:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Royalsoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Why would you compromise your dreams and wishes for someone else?
2006-10-03 12:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't totally wrong if your plans for you life have changed.
2006-10-03 12:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you need to decide...whats stronger your love for him or your desire to have another child???whatever you decide isnt wrong unless u decide once its too late
2006-10-03 12:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋