her boyfriend is a very jealous guy, sometimes he didnt even call her or text her, he vists her very rarely. in my space he has girls saying i miss you and love you.He doesnt spend time at all with her what she really want to know do you think he even loves her? or do you think hes cheating on her?
2006-10-03 04:57:45 · 26 answers · asked by St@r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's a waste of time. She's only dating him and if a boyfriend makes you feel bad in any way or wondering whether he's cheating, etc, time to move on. What's the point of continuing to date someone who makes you feel badly? So you can feel badly for a longer period of time? There are literally tons of available men around, and there is no reason in the world to settle for being treated any way other than great! Let that loser treat someone else like dirt.
2006-10-03 05:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're her friend, you need to let her know first off that that is not a healthy relationship. A big red flag is if a man is spending less time with you with more excuses as to why. There is obviously someone spending his time. But she needs to realize that he can't get jealous if he isn't there and he is potentially cheating... The signs are there, but I don't know the situation, but you don't need to be a rocket scientists to have some idea that something isn't right. You need to let your friend know that you will be there for her no matter what decision she makes, and don't judge her for either reason. If he loves her that much, he would tell her the truth, Keep this in mind: he may not even be jealous. That could be a front to pretend like he is still interested, but also keeping her at bay from being suspicious about his activity.. WATCH THE SIGNS!! Good luck to your friend.
2006-10-03 12:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a strong possibility that he is cheating especially if he gets messages from other girls saying they miss him and love him. Your friend needs to dump the player and find someone that will treat her well. Take care
2006-10-03 12:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of myspace comments say 'ilu' or 'miss u ldz' etc, its just a way to end a comment, i wouldn't take that too seriously unless you have reason to believe it means anything more. If he isnt spending any time or bothering to text your friend, maybe you should ask him if he's still interested, he might just be having a bit of space. If it is upsetting her, confront him.
2006-10-03 12:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say he doesn't love her i would say he is not into her right now at this point so what she needs to do is let him go and find himself and if it is meant to be he will come back to her other wise she is causing herself a lot of pain 4 no reason.
2006-10-03 12:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so jelous when hes not even spending time with her? That doesnt make sense to me. I would tell her to move on and find someone that wants to be with her.
2006-10-03 12:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It too obvious that she does not have a boyfriend. If they never see each other or talk then how can that be called a relationship?
she need to move on because that boy is NOT thinking about her at all.
2006-10-03 11:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should dump him... Is she crazy?! Maybe is lame anyways all it does is start trouble. Tell her to get over him! She is better than that. Not all guys are like that. She can find someone that will respect her and love her.
Good luck!!!!
2006-10-03 11:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if he has a lot of love interests. If your friend does not mind being played then stay otherwise she needs to cut her ties and find a man who can appreciate her.
2006-10-03 12:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether he is cheating or not is practically irrelevant at this juncture. He obviously doesn't care for her and she needs to dump this loser quickly, and find some self respect for herself. She doesn't deserve to be treated in this way..... Good luck, honey!
2006-10-03 12:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋