okay the man I am seeing has three children and I have one ....all of his reside with there mother (s). He does not want anymore and I do we both feel really strongly about this... Which all ready tells me it is going to be a big deal down the road...We have only been seeing each other for a month,and no we are not planning on it or not right now but everything has to be out in the open right?
2006-10-03 04:57:19 · 5 answers · asked by thunder_rainclouds 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I figure getting it all out in the open now instead of waiting till a year or two down the road will help us both in the long road...besides we have known each other for 9 months
2006-10-03 05:03:06 · update #1
two of his children were totally planned and the other well she was ummmm how to put this respectfully she was the ending of a revengful situation...and he is a very good dad too the two he is allowed to see
2006-10-03 05:11:30 · update #2
Yes, everything does have to be out in the open and if he is determined not to have any more kids while you want more, there isnt much point in wasting your time.
Youve only been dating a month, Im actually surprised you guys have discussed this.
2006-10-03 05:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many of his kid's that he has right now do you think where planed, I'm sure when the time comes and you both find out your pregnant all his doubts of having another kid will slip away, but what you have to ask your self is what kind of Dad is he to the kids he already has
2006-10-03 12:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by ibpat38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear u just know him for a mth, u need more time to get to know this man better. don't rush into the relationship. didn't want u to get hurt in the long run..
2006-10-03 12:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw all the cards on the table and talk about it before the problems occur
2006-10-03 12:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by coopchic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is adamant about not having kids you will need to find yourself another man
2006-10-03 11:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋