Is a**l intercourse safe and what is the best way to do it without hurting your partner?

Answer 1

yes......with a condom (extra strength ones are made for a*al)
also don't got in the back entrance and then try the front, unless you change condoms

use *proper* lubricant - KY or somesuch
be slow and gentle

If she's allowing you to do it (it will hurt her, if you're doing it against her will) then she may like the idea and, as you do it more, it will get easier.
Tried it a couple of times (with women, I hasten to add) and I never really saw the attraction......I much prefer to use the *proper* entrance.... It's either too tight (like having an elastic band round your c*ck) or there's not enough feeling 'inside'

but I reckon that, if you want to give it a try, and she agrees, go for it.

People who pass moral judgements (saying it's 'unnatural') are prigs. It is not degrading, as long as you're both happy with it.
I have met women who like it as an addition to vaginal s*x, even as much as vaginal s*x.
It's not dumb, lots of people enjoy it, and anyone who says it is dumb is just.... dumb

Answer 2

It is NOT safe. In fact, most medical experts will tell you to avoid such activities since they are a higher risk of catching HIV and other STDs.

However, since there is a risk in all things sexual these days, it is possible to have healthy an*l sex regardless of modern health issues. The safest way is with the use of a condom, and lubricant.

One constant factor you will hear time and again is the importance of lubricant. Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant! There's ALWAYS time for lubricant. Lubrication is absolutly essential for a less painful experience, especially for the person at the receiving end.

Another important factor you must also recognise is that no every body can perform an*l sex. Some people just seem to have been design with that particular flexibility lacking in their genes. However, most people can at some point ease their muscles and be capable of such activities, even if they thought they couldn't. The real trick is patience, trial & error. If at first you don't suceed; don't give out hope, just keep on trying until things ease up.

Most people cannot perform a successful an*l penetration at first try. It takes alot of patience and foreplay, and like I said, lots of lubrication.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Yes its safe but make sure you use a condom otherwise you both might get illness passed from the anus. All fours is ok, make sure you are both well lubricated (you cant use too much) and be very gentle and slow just putting a little bit in at a time and then a slow and gentle pace going, it will hurt her in the begining but the key is to relax and be very slow and gentle

Answer 4

If you use an extra strength condoms and make use of an oil based lubrication; not water based, then it's safe. Go slow; to start with let her back up on you, then she can go at the pace that right for her!

Answer 5

If you use a condom its safe i think... im not sure of a way to not hurt your partner because it just sounds damn painful.x

Answer 6

Do it in doy style. It is safe as long as you put a lot of gel or oil and do it slowly

Answer 7

unprotected anal sex is one of the easiest ways to spread sexually transmitted diseases because it causes more bleeding and therefore more of a higher risk body fluid is exchanged. other than that lots of lube.. but to be honest i can't think of anyone i know who PREFERS anal sex. if you are sexually active and not in a monogamous relationship you should always use protection.

Answer 8

Yes it s fine so long as your careful and your partner is relaxed about it,

Answer 9

no it is not safe, and it is the easiest way to contract hiv and other diseases not only that but it can lead to bleeding and real bad hemmroids.also very unclean,

Answer 10

Is it b*****cks safe!! Just stick a red hot poker up there, that'll make him squeal like a pig!