you wonder what the hell you ever saw in the other person? like you can't stand them anymore. the very thing or things you liked about them before are the same things that bug the sh!t outta you now?
2006-10-03 04:39:15 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i was in this relationship once that started out just as a friends with benefits thing but led to a real relationship because we had two things in common We both liked having sex and smoking weed and we didnt want to share each other with anyone else.
After I spilt with him and got myself cleaned up( I have been clean and sober for over 3 years!!) I learned from him and other friends we were close to that he was using me since I was the only one who had a full time job and that he was bi sexual and cheating on me with another guy
2006-10-03 04:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by evillynn8098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I liked this girl one time but she didn't feel the same way. I saw her again a few months later and I was surprised to see how much she had... errr...umm... how to put it politely?... changed...
I liked her because she was the life of the party but I guess the party got real old real fast if you know what I mean (lol).
I guess that's what too much partying does to you.
2006-10-03 11:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's easy to get caught up in love and when your heart breaks, it takes time to heal. Once you're OUTSIDE of the picture, things become more clear and you realize what went wrong. Just remember to learn from them.
2006-10-03 11:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA n am saying it from experience!
You ask yourself what you had seen it that guy in the first place??!
He's no more cute or interesting!
You don't even regret your decision!
And if eva he calls you back again or try 2 meet you, you would realy want to ignore him but then be polite and REFUSE his invitation!!!
2006-10-03 11:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by znanhuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. You get used to the other.. You accept things. Now that you're out of the ralationship, u look back from a different p.o.v. You'll learn from it too.
2006-10-03 11:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes now take that information and use it screen future objects of your affection, so you will not make the same mistake twice
2006-10-03 11:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you are so mad at the person, the things you once loved about them vanish. You can't see the good in them, for what they have done blocks your vision.
2006-10-03 11:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I once dated a guy that did almost everything that bothered me. Im not sure why I bothered.
2006-10-03 11:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. but sounds like you have..
I think once you feel differently about someone it changes your whole perspective on them.
2006-10-03 11:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, so just be happy your not in the relationship anymore.
2006-10-03 11:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋