When I was with my boyfriend, we both liked sex very much and then we broke up. He left me to be with my friend, I was very hurt by it. Then after he broke up with her a month later. And we started talkin at my house and we ended up doing it again. I don't want a relationship with him again but he was a good friend and we just end up having sex almost every time we're together. How can i move on from this? I don't want to lose him as a friend. Has anyone ever had this kind of relationship?
2006-10-03 04:29:29 · 15 answers · asked by 2Tru895 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, but luckily for me i moved, try to see him less and less
2006-10-03 04:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I'm married now with two kids. But back in the day I had this friend that I never really officially dated but we were really good friends and you new it was safe and no strings. As long as you are both on the same wavelength I think it great. Everybody has needs and at least your not going home with someone random like a lot do. Talk it out. If you're both cool than great.
2006-10-03 04:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I had a relationship that started out as friends with benefits but he lied by saying that he was in love with me because he knew that I cared about him but was on the rebound from a messy marriage that ended badly conned me to move in with him and got me so messed up that I was working full time just to support his weed habit and other habits that I never even knew about until we split and he started hitting on my new boyfriend
2006-10-03 04:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by evillynn8098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do this:
Tell him you only want to be friends, NO sex. If he cant do that then dont even be his friend. He hurt you. He should'nt of went out with your friend. All he wants is sex from you. You will find someone better at sex when you find the right person. :)
2006-10-03 05:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the next time you guys are together and things start up again you need to stop him and talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he cant respect your decision, then he is not worth keeping as a friend, b/c friends shouldnt pressure you into doin anything you dont want to do. even if they are an ex.
2006-10-03 04:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by SS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, as long as you become available to for sex, that's all he will see you. Let him know you only want a friend relationship not a sexual one. If he can not accept it , move on.
2006-10-03 04:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open the door, ask him to leave, close the door. Unless you keep inviting him over for the good sex then you will have to deal with that, until he finds a new partner
2006-10-03 04:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I've had a relationship like this but worse.
if you don't want to lose him as a freind then don't stop sleeping with him.... it's unlikely that you'll get it both ways (in this case)
2006-10-03 04:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and to tell you the truth friends with benefit will never work out just move one
2006-10-03 04:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by St@r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off.......this could become an addiction on both of your parts and you guys will not be able to move on because of this pseudo-relationship......i been there.....
2006-10-03 04:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about how he diss you for one of your friends and that should be the mean reasons you shouldn't have mess with him again just leave him alone he's only using u
2006-10-03 04:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋