embarass and belittle women when they get rejected?
Like on here - a guy I dont even know has taken to making a point of trying to mock and make me out to be a right pillock in every answer he gives - like why? Deal with it and move on!!!
Nice men - please note Im not including ye all in this catagory.
2006-10-03 04:19:04 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just upset because he did not get the results he wanted, happens to everyone sometime or other, man or woman.
The trick is too acknowledge the upset and move on, he obviously isn't doing that, he's hanging on to it, he's also blaming you for your damn "whatever" for rejecting him instead of looking at how he could have realised a better outcome. In other words he's possibly playing the your fault not my fault game or even the who do you think you are game.
He's just not being responsible, and he's not helping himself either.
Don't know what i would do about this in yahoo answers, in real life would tend to stay away from this sort of person as i need as much of my energy as possible.
It isn't always just the men that get up upset and irresponsible, I've met a few women like that also and I do speak with bitter experience.
2006-10-03 05:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Blame a culture that tells men that having sexual access to women -- preferably more than one -- is a measure of manhood. If a man internalizes that message, rejection makes him feel like less of a man. So he tries to "reclaim his manhood" by convincing himself that the woman who rejected him isn't worth having. If he can convince her and/or other people of the same thing in the process, that's a bonus. Yes, any man who does this is a jerk -- but he's also a victim. Our culture really needs to embrace a healthier image of masculinity.
2006-10-03 04:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they are jerks by nature lol. No but really it's human nature to not like to be rejected, like the lil' man complex. They don't want to feel inferior or look or sound stupid when they do things. So they just act like azzes so as to not show that they either dont know the answer or so that they look cool. Keep in mind that people take joy in ridiculing others. They laugh at other people's expenses even if it means hurting someone's feelings they don't care as long as its not their own.
2006-10-03 04:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
happens with women too check a mtv show parental control the person eliminates people 1 at a time. Walking away makes you seem like a failure but saying your fuckin fat as hell im glad you didnt pick you makes you seem awesome at points. Its a way of trying to prove he is awesome instead of being just embaressed and just leave
2006-10-03 04:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by lztexan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probally some lil 14 year old just ignore him & if hes not answering the questions report the little tit.
As for out there in the real world its a defence thing for men with no personality. Ignore them to :)
2006-10-03 04:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Chris C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they are immature, and the rejection has hurt their feelings and cause them to lose face somehow (even if no one else is around to notice it). You need to ignore men like that and deal with mature guys from now on (Note: that does not necessarily mean older. One of my friends is 32, and has the maturity of an 18 year old).
2006-10-03 04:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
In my answers in order questions, men think they are so big and and far up their own bottom they cant see daylight and they believe some nasty comments or snidy comments will propell them to superstardom. Rejection shouldnt be taken in a negative way, as long as you take time to accept rejection and move on, the normal men should come out without losing dignity which i believe this bloke has lost, and to compensate for his loss he has taken out his frustrations out on you. But its good you saw his true colors right now, and say you went on to date this person, how would you know his true personality. So its all about a hurt ego and this blokes ego has taken such a beating he has no choice but to vent his anger back at you. And quite clearly it aint your fault and he is just a big baby who needs his bottle!!
Hope it works out. What you need to do is ignore, let him say what he wants, he will only get tired. xxx
2006-10-03 05:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because some men hate feeling rejected and they have to feel 'BIG' again and the only way that they can do this is by belittleing the girl that turned then down or rejected them
2006-10-03 04:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Karla K 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well the thing is you would have given them false hopes when they will be making their moves..if a guy is of the mentality that he will win this girl and the opposite wins he will try and make life miserable for u so as to let out his anger ..this is natural ..guys dont usually like to be loosers if it comes to the women issue..if they loose they tend to make yu make feel bad so that noone can put attention on them but on you...
2006-10-03 04:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Funkmaster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess some men can not handle rejection, and lash out, this type of person I feel, must have been an only child and always had their own way.
2006-10-03 04:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋