2006-10-03 04:09:32 · 16 answers · asked by curious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah of course it is...have lots of kids and make sure you don't sign a pre nupt....then when you guys get divorced..cuz ur probably gonna you can take him for all he is worth...Sounds like your on the right track in life...good for you and your parents.
2006-10-03 04:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this 27 year old is a sick individual who needs to grow up and date women his own age. You are still so young to be thinking about adult decisions. Go date, be young, go to dances, parties, football games, and prom. This 27 year old has already been in high school and done those things. If it is meant to be then he won't mind waiting for you while you are doing what girls your age are supposed to do.
You really should talk to an adult at school or your parents or someone about this issue. There are so many doors open to you right now and this guy is only going to close them for you.
2006-10-03 04:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Perri L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not in my opinion. You really won't be back to have a 'life' if you marry so soon and especially if this person is 11 or 12 years older then you. You'd still need to go through college. What if you found out someone you really liked around your age was into things you liked? What if this person likes you too but you denied him and said, "Sorry, I'm married to a 27-year-old." You'd probably pass up a great relationship.
However, if you like this dude then go for it, I suppose. Even if he was around your age, I'd say no, don't go for the marriage. I'd wait five to six years tops to consider marriage..you can definately know that the person you liked is definately for you. =[ But whatever your choice, go for it. I wish thee the best of luck.
2006-10-03 04:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by Silver Hexen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may all your life feel that you did not have change to live a little. From school, right into marriage, is too much, then will come the baby, and life will just be passing you by. What about college, don't you want to do that, so you can be self supporting, an won't need a men all of your life to take care of you. This is something you need to think about, long and hard, so years down the road, you will have no regrets.
2006-10-03 04:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 27 year old wants to settle down and you are barely out of high school. What do YOU want to do? This person is asking for the rest of your life, luv, and if you're ready I say go for it. If you want some time to think it over, say you'll need a year to think it over. If they can't understand that, you got your answer, they're a control freak. If they love you, they'll wait and appreciate that you are thinking it through.
2006-10-03 04:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would not be a wise move. That is a huge age difference at your age. I think you need to wait a while after graduating before making that decision. Go to college, travel, then if you feel it is right get married.
2006-10-03 04:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There's something quite wrong with him if he is dating someone still in high school. You need to finish school, get some post-secondary education, get out on your own in the working world and then see what's out there. Give yourself a chance to have some real experiences as you mature.
2006-10-03 04:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, this guy is not good for you. Think about it. Why wouldn't a grown *** man want to date a woman his own age? he likes to be in control of things. he can't control awoman his own age as easily as someone younger. He's in such a big rush to marry you so he'll have his own personal slave. He thinks he has a naive, pretty young thing. please get rid of his ***. He should want you to go to college and have fun. Experience new things, not tie you down as soon as u get out the door. It may seem great now, but think about it. People are always extra sweet until they think they got u...just please think about what you want in life and if he can't wait until you get what u need for you, then he's not really thinking of your best interest
2006-10-03 04:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by yaasmiyn20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you leave high school things will change and so will you. I think, at least for me, in my 20's has been the biggest growing experince. Why jump into marriage when there is so much out there for you to explore?
Besides you don't sound sure about it if your asking on here.
2006-10-03 04:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're 27 ask yourself if you would marry a male high school student. That's your answer.
2006-10-03 04:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋