i have friends but not best friends. I want a BF by my birthday so that he can spoil me. I already spoil myself but its nothing like spending someone else money. its this dude at work gives me the eye but im scared to approach him (i feel like he should approach me). for one ive never dated anyone on the job or at anywhere that i have to see them all day everyday. i wouldnt mind talking to the dude that work with, hes cute! anyways i would like to know yall input. also, there are people that wanna be with me but i know that its not going to work and thats why i dont pursue it.
i am not shallow. i want a BF for more than spending his money, also his companionship. what is wrong with being pampered. NOT A D@MN THING! besides i have my own money! i am not desperate because if i was then i talk to the dudes that wanna talk to me but they are and will forver be boy toys unless they upgrade.
i cant talk to anyone that going in the opposite direction as me...thats like playing tug a war
2006-10-03 04:04:39 · 15 answers · asked by i ♥ my cat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never said that i NEED a BF
i want one
there is a difference
2006-10-03 04:18:34 · update #1
Sounds like you are fighting with the voices in your head. I say rock on miss thing. You get you a boyfriend!
2006-10-03 04:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you want a BF like a fashion accessory, a gift? This is a human being and you truly admit you want someone to spoil you. Yet you are "scared" to approach a man. Guess what? You'll be alone if you don't step up your game, hon. I don't date on the job unless one of us is quitting and then the other's fair game after that. It's too messy otherwise. But hey, you have your friends for companionship or get a pet. Being in a relationship requires communication and give and take. If you want a one sided relationship, then get involved with something that won't answer back and just love you unconditionally, like a dog.
2006-10-03 04:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BF's don't spoil girls. It's the father's job to do that. BF's use girls, especially the ones who desire to exploit them. Girls who expect to be pampered by their BF's usually end up with pimps.
Get your mind off that co-worker. Many jobs discourage that sort of action and they actually fire people for carrying on affairs, even if it's off the work-place.
Get to know God first, and then all things will fall into place. What would be a better birthday present than obtaining eternal life?
2006-10-03 04:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have personally found that when I want a bf by a certain date (like for a spcecial event), it never ever happens that way. Life never works like that, sorry.
Get to be good friends with your cute guy and when things blossom, that's when it's meant to happen.
2006-10-03 04:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok listen the fact that you "need" a bf by your Bday is pathetic, and whos now a lil girl needing attention, grow up and if you cant deal with someone you work with being with you then I suggest you might just wanna start with what kind of man u want and then pursue them.,.. and if you "need" one by a certain date then you have to make a few sacrfices and maybe approach them
2006-10-03 04:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're a little bit young! But by posting this question on YA I'm sure you'll get yaself a b/f!
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2006-10-03 04:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get another cat, sounds like thats more your speed.
2006-10-03 04:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your probably screwed yourself up because you want a bf by your boyfriend by your boyfriend so yea probably wont get one. you seem like a material girl anyways.
2006-10-03 04:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I want a BJ by my birthday, but I ain't holding my breath.
2006-10-03 04:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It ain't gonna be me. I hate cats!
2006-10-03 04:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jet 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋