U see i was assigned a case to this guy to be his personal accountant/ banker etc. he was such a jerk that he rejected me as his accountant and instead wanted another accountant .and worst he did not even tell me the reason why...because of this i nearly lost a promotion as my manager though i wasnt doing a gd job... this spread through the whole office. it pretty embrassing.. but then only recently he asked me out for lunch and told me that if he was my client , its unethical for him to date me.. what is he for real ?? now he want to date me .. is he just making fun or being serious! till now im sooo pisssed off at him! help what is he thinking exactly....
2006-10-03 03:53:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try your luck.
trial and error method.
2006-10-03 03:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Miss OK!
That should sound OK to you leaving him aside. Once he has rejected you, now you reject his proposal of going out on date. You'll feel comfortable. This kind of persons are really embarrassing. They are men of their own personal gains and selfish material. He must have got some business now. Don't worry take you job as challenge, work hard, show your skills and get promotion. Forget about this JERK. Don't even bother your mind and soul to think about him. Best Wishes for your future.
2006-10-03 04:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if the person you are dating has FULL acess to your money and your account? I would hope not. I'm assuming, he's really interested in you, but because of privacey reasons he choose to go with someone else as his personal banker, in hopes to win your heart over. Don't take his rejection personal, somethings need to be kept private.
2006-10-03 03:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a crock of crap.. you should give him the boot and tell him that he almost cost you a promotion and if you started dating him just think of how that will make you feel later on to know that this guy could have cost you more then a promotion but possibly a job. tell him no..
2006-10-03 03:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing might be that he is trying to make ammends for what h e did to u ..he might be for real but pliz dont fall too dip so soon coz u are not sure of his intentions..give it time and see where it ends up..sometimes men realise their mistakes later and try to make up by dating the very same women ..
so take yr time b4 u brush him off aside..he might be for real..BUT after all having been said and done u have the final decision ..the choice is yours to make ..
cheers.......
2006-10-03 04:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Funkmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL the old I cant date the accountant story LOL!!! again.
Tell him how you feel and what nearly happened because of his crap and then go out for a meal and shake hands at the door.
2006-10-03 04:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can understand not wanting to mix business and pleasure but he sounds a bit of a poseur.
2006-10-03 03:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably jerking your chain, don't let him. Tell him you don't date losers. In any case, never mix business and relationships, it's a recipe for disaster.
2006-10-03 04:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should of said something to you at the start when you were assingned to him, becuase by replacing you he automatically assumed you'd agree to date him which shows he a bit over-confident and maybe a bit cocky/arrogant. so maybe you should string him along for bit to find out if he's genuine or not
2006-10-03 04:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jamieson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think fair play to him for tryin to be ethical but explain to him what a postion it has put u in with regards to your work
2006-10-03 03:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by emmaisalways 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're making a mockery out of yourself love
and that must make you sooooo pisssed off at yourself
2006-10-03 04:20:09 · answer #11 · answered by bloko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋