for both men and women
2006-10-03 03:14:43 · 14 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never cheated and never will but i think it s a fact of life (unfortunately)
2006-10-03 03:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think cheating is a fact of life, but i certainly do think it is a symptom. If life were perfect, no one would have an emotional void or need that would compel them to cheat.
Not in all cases, but many, cheating is a symptom not an end to itself. If one, or both, of the the people in a relationship are not getting what they need from the relationship, the will be trouble to follow. The trouble may be depression, substance abuse, gambling, cheating, or some other form of needful behavior.
Sure, there are a small percentage of people who cheat just to cheat. We all know one or two of those. The bigger picture of adultery is something more complicated where everyone is a victim. No. it does not excuse the behavior, but it helps to better understand it. In a perfect world if someone is not getting what they need emotionally, they talk with their partner and all is well. Since the world, and people, are not perfect this sometimes does not happen. Sometimes the cheater can't even process that they are missing something, but still feel the buried emotions.
So a cheater is a cheater? Sometimes, but sometimes the cheater is also a person reaching out and reaches to the wrong place for what they are missing.
2006-10-03 03:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to answer this is by asking yourself what you really would consider cheating. Is it considered cheating if he/she oggles others in public? answers phone calls from their x? Is it cheating when they flirt online with random people? Have sexual discussion on voice chat? I would say yes to alot and no to some. It really depends. But to be honest I believe that all of us can make such a mistake. If it teaches us the value of our real relationship and that we try and learn from it then that's always good. If not then we'll keep on cheating on everyone we love and end up alone and cheated out of real love.
2006-10-03 03:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that there some things in life that can be avoided because your in control & cheating is 1 of them. If your @ a party & some girl is hounding you its your choice 2 avoid them or not. You "ALWAYS" have a choice your a growm a@# man/woman! The problem is that have found a lot of ways to justify bulls@#$!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 04:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some peoples lives sure. I like to think that most people do not cheat, I could be wrong though.
2006-10-03 03:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because not everyone does it, if ti were really a fact of life everyone would do it and there would be no problem over it
2006-10-03 03:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not. It is a choice not a fact of life.
2006-10-03 03:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ordinarily I'd say no, but that was before I seen your body.
2006-10-03 03:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid it is ,i dont now why though if you are happy with who yopu are with ,then why cheat
2006-10-03 03:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if you dont care who you are with!
2006-10-03 03:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋