I'm still dealing with the aftermath of my breakup but I've decided not to stop living just because that long chapter of my life has now ended. I recently met someone online one day and we seem to have a real connection. I'm so paranoid because of how we met and because of the way my ex treated me. I'd like some help from my Yahoo! friends, can I really find romance online? Anyone ever met anyone that way? Tell me what you guys think.
2006-10-03 02:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by lovelee1 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well....I'm an optimist and look to meet new people everywhere really so would defiinitly be open to trying it once.
If you feel like you're still hurting from the way the last guy treated you maybe you shouldn't get into a relationship just yet as our previous relationships can have a bad/good effect on the way the new ones go....that just from my experience though, try something simple with this guy...don't look for love on the first day...just make friends and see where it heads but dont compare him to the last guy....give him a chance
2006-10-03 03:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I met my bloke on-line a year and a half ago now. And my ex met his new lass on the internet... It happens a lot these days and, let's face it, it makes more sense to get to know someone a bit on-line than it does to get drunk in a bar, shout at each other over the load music and then stumble home...
Take your time getting to know each other. ALWAYS make sure you use common sense (it's really easy to pretend to be something or someone that you'r not) and then if it comes to meeting up, make sure it's in a public place and people know where you are.
All basic stuff, and I don't want to sound patronising, but it can and does work out for some people.
Good luck and take care.
2006-10-03 03:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Padeecat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think that you can find romance online but be care in who you choose because there are a lot of crazy people out there
Does it work? Well yeah my best friends uncle met his wife online he lives here in Illinois and she lived in Rhode Island and they have been happily married for almost 10 years
It worked for me too.I was about to give up on the dating scene but then a friend of mine recommended this free dating website called Plenty of Fish.com I met a few different guys that I really didnt care for but then I met this guy named Chris from my old hometown and we had so much in common We talked online and by email almost every day and finally agreed to meet in the town I lived in which was only an hour away from him. Chris and I met at a public place and there was this instant attraction that could not be explained We drove all over town and he even went to my house to meet my best friend and her family that I lived with. From that day on It was love and we agreed to keep in contact as much as we could. I didnt have a car so I would have my best friend take me down to see Chris on my days off work since his van broke down and he could not come and get me. Well about a month and a half after meeting him We took a 4 hour drive up north and I met his mother She was really nice and was happy that Chris finally found someone We then decided the day after Thanksgiving last year that we didnt want to be apart anymore so I moved in with him And then I found out I was pregnant on Dec. 22 which was 2 days after his birthday We told our families on Christmas Eve and everyone was happy about the news. Then on July 14 of this year I gave birth to a baby boy, the first child for me and for Chris, and our son was born 8 days before my birthday and Chris's mother's birthday which we both have the same birthday(how weird is that!) Sorry to keep going on about my personal situation it just goes to show that some people can be lucky enough to find what they are looking for online Good Luck if you are truly searching!
2006-10-03 03:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by evillynn8098 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like "real world" dating, you need to enter this experience with caution. use your head and follow your heart. Anytime that you meet a new person, you need to use good judgement, nd take caution. I was divorced for 2 years when I met a man online. We weren't looking for anything, we weren't looking to start a relationship, we just started talking and playing cards together.That was (3) years ago. We are now married and will be celebrating our 1st wedding anniversary in March! Just remember, every relationship is different and use caustion when talking to people online, (just as you would in "real life") Tahnks for letting em share my story, and Good luck!!
2006-10-03 02:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey i say if ytou feel comfortable and you like this guy how you meet should not be an issue. I met my current boyfriend online and we have been dating for 7mths....people have met in starnger places...meting online is very common these days. But what is most important is how you feel about him and what you want.
2006-10-03 02:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... maximum of negatives. i assume i'm a three time loser then. LMAO i replaced into engaged to my first romance that one and started on line. replaced into married to my 2nd for virtually 4 years. and that i met my cutting-edge spouse on line besides...and we are having our 0.33 anniversary in precisely 3 weeks. So yeah. i've got faith it!
2016-10-18 10:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that a lot of stupid people think they can work.
2006-10-03 02:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not a good idea at all... maybe you're on the rebound. it's best if you wait and contemplate on things.
2006-10-03 02:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋