i havent had a boyfriend in 2 years...i dont know whats wrong. a bunch of guys are my BEST friends but theres no "romance"
i dont know what to do. all of my female friends have boyfriends and they talk about holding hands and kissing and i still have my "lipginity" if you know what i mean. im 15 and still dont know what to do.
PLEASE HELP ME!! what can i do to get a guy to notice me? i know the "be yourself" crap but that has never worked in the past.
what can i say?
what can i do?
THANKS
2006-10-03 01:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by dancinXonXtheXrooftops 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, the Be Yourself advice is about the best that anybody can give you...I know it doesn't seem like much help now, but, believe me, it will in the future.
Now, I would suggest being patient, and if possible, broaden your circle of friends. At 15, you have a very small circle. You are generally tied to one neighborhood, one school, in one town. The odds of you finding the right one are pretty slim, and you don't want to start settling for just any one.
Get out there, and try something new...join a school club if they have them where you are...something unusual like fencing, or something like that where you can pick a guy to help you...then, ask for help...talk to him...and be yourself...kissing will happen soon enough.
2006-10-03 02:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying. Find something else to occupy your time. Join a club, volunteer,get a new hobby. The point in this is that it must be something NEW. You will meet more people, and have something to do where you can be yourself in front of these new people. Just make sure you join an activity that includes boys. You always seem to find a new "friend" when you are least expecting to.
2006-10-03 02:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by ' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, that "be yourself" crap works because if you try to be someone else you'll never be 'right' at it......but really, for both guys and girls, people only want what they can't have. Don't be 'desperate' or try too hard, just go on with living your life and keep your options open. Believe it or not, us guys (at least the decent kind you probably want to snag) like a challenge, a little chase.....be hard to get, but not too hard to get.
2006-10-03 03:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by hexkitty01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl, that has happened to me before when i was young. Everyone had blossomed except me. Why don't you do a sport or be a cheerleader. Be active in class to get them to notice you. Its all with time as you don't want to force yourself on a guy, do you? Do things so even if your friends are in lip-lock, you won't be too bothered.
Also, be yourself.
2006-10-03 02:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too small for this. Dont take this stuff that seriously, otherwise you'll end up having a ballooned belly like other girls.
So...u r lucky that u r single.
Just concentrate on your study. You would've better chances when u r 18.
2006-10-04 00:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you need to be yourself. If you try to hard the guys will think something different of you if you know what I mean.
2006-10-03 03:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself is crap indeed.
Try being someone completely different for a month or so, see how that goes.
2006-10-03 01:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you haven't found that special guy because you haven't looked hard enough, or maybe you've found him and don't know it yet, try to get to know really well your friends and maybe hes there somewhere.
2006-10-03 03:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same old crap: be yourself
2006-10-03 01:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, and have patience.
2006-10-03 01:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋