If he asked, would you let your boyfriend make a home made video tape of you and him together (In bed) , or would it totally freak you out ?
2006-10-03 01:10:49 · 35 answers · asked by ♥ Love Angel Music Baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know its a question for the ladies.... but DONT DO IT!!!
I wouldnt do it if my girlfriend asked. If you split up, it could be used against you!!!
You have to have a "Very commited" relashionship in order to truely trust your partner over such issues. I personally wouldnt do anything disrespectful if I broke up with my girlfriend, even if I did have some videos of us in bed.
I wouldnt go down that road when video tapes are concerned, regardless!!
2006-10-03 03:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya...NO...there would be no way in Hell I would let my boyfriend make a home video of us in bed together...Because he could a) show all his friends...and b) put that video on the Internet...A couple of months ago...I was bored and I went on yahoo video...and do you know how many video;s there are of drunk people doing stupid ****...LOL...well the video's are unbelieving hilarious...but I still wouldn't want to be the person everyone is laughing at....because I let someone make a home made video of me...you will regret it in the end..
2006-10-03 01:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Dont' ever do that unless you are married to him.
It may end up being watched by all of his friends.
You don't want to be the slutty naked chic in your X boyfriends TV at parties.
Do you remember what happened to Paris Hilton?
We are living in the day of internet, you could be posted up everywhere and not even know it.
I am married, I might do it. but it would kind of "freak me out" too much to see me on screen like that.
That's for really narcissistic personalities who love the way they look in all positions.
2006-10-03 01:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be playing a dangerous game, he could decide to break up with you in the future, then put the video on the internet for a whole host of perverts to see, a very dodgey idea.
2006-10-03 01:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah totally agree its something personal that you want to keep between your selves so why wud you want to tape it, i mean look what happened to imogen off BB7 her ex plastered it all over the news papers. Just imagine it getting into the wrong hands i'd say dont do it its too risky.
2006-10-03 01:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by kayleigh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be freaked out, as I am always open to suggestions from him in the bedroom, and am willing to try new things. I don't know if I'd do it though, as its such a huge trust thing as what happens if you break up? Do you both keep a copy, or just destroy it? And do you trust him not to show it off to his friends?
2006-10-03 01:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.... Is he a trustworthy person. Ask him about his ex... If he bad mouths her then you know what to do. If he speaks about her with respect, as friend and with sincere regret that things didn't work out (and please don't be a baby about it - he had a life before you! and loved someone else before you just like you did) - then you know that he wouldn't discuss you with anyone. My fiance made one with his ex and when i asked him what he'd done with it he told me that he'd given it all to her. I believe him because I know and trust him completely - and also she & her fiance are our very good friends now, so we had a drunken gossip one night! I still wouldn't do it though but thats because the camera would make me uncomfortable. You decide for yourself.
2006-10-03 01:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not unless I was guaranteed to be the sole holder of the tape! Otherwise you can be guaranteed if ye break up that you'll be found on the giant screen down your local pub!! Dont do it girl! xx
2006-10-03 04:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way would I let him film. I know of someone who did this and the film got stolen, copied and soon the whole village had seen it. Not worth the risk. Spoils the whole intimacy of the occasion
2006-10-03 01:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by MIsty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I suppose I'd say yes because it doesn't bother me but it mgiht if he was to show loads of people, especially ones who knew us. It really depends on what you want to do, if you don't want to do don't do it and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. If you do want to do it then go for it. It is really up to you, and if you're having worries about it maybe sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him about it.
2006-10-03 01:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋