What should I do? He randomly pops into my head like every five seconds, and its driving me mental! It's been going on for months!Argh!
2006-10-03 01:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So let's get this straight. He can't stand you, hates you and you like him in your head. Do you think you need to do some work on yourself here? Get a bit of a life - and I am being constructive here. Pick up a good book, go for a run, make a true friend feel that you appreciate them, do some serious goal setting. Why do you want to set yourself up for heartache? Isn't the world full of enough crap without you plucking out a potentially abusive situation? I think you are worthy of the best and nothing less. I think he is popping into your head because you need to fill that space he is occupying with some self worth, self protection and self love. Get busy and get out there. If you are truly strong you will attract strength and you will be powerful and not a victim - you choose.
2006-10-03 01:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey . Im 14 n I've been in ur situation b4. I got over him after 1 year!. Dont worry its normal. The best thing to do is try and forget about him. If this guy doesnt treat you right and hates you, he aint worth liking. There is a forest out there, and im really sure you can find true love. A guy that actually gives u love in return!
2006-10-03 01:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by nc15672 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he hate you so much? Have you done something really bad or offended him some way if you did id forget about it.If not maybe its a front, ive known lads to treat girls they fancy like s***t to stand out from the crowd and get your attention if this is what hes doing then just play along, he'l soon get the confidence to come around and tell you how he really feels.
2006-10-03 01:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly that's just life & there are plenty of other guys out there that will appreciate you. It's called inflatuation & it is quite common. You have to get your mind busy thinking of other things which will help
2006-10-03 01:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Girl O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care about someone thats hates you?
think about it, he cant stand you and hates you!
best tips i can give are to
- dont talk to them
- avoid this person
if you can reduce contact, remove all things that remind you of them and you can find someone else. you will be able to move on. it wont be strait away, but evetually you can move on if you keep it up.
hope that helps, dave
2006-10-03 01:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a person who usually gets what they want,,if so,,it could just be the chase,,but be warned,if he really doesn't like you,let it go and leave him alone,,go out and fantasize over someone who actually likes you back,,meet someone new and you will soon forget about him.
2006-10-03 01:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya gotta get over it!! its ok to think about him...then get on with real life, try to find something that will keep you busy and take your mind off him
good luck
2006-10-03 01:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by sphinxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello gurl you're in love. at least thats the conclusion i'd come up with
2006-10-03 01:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal, take a chill pill. move on in your life, u'll find others who'll love u back as well.
2006-10-03 01:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dont like you in aint gonna happen.get over it..
2006-10-03 01:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋