I always end up being mean and nasty and scaring them away
2006-10-03 00:56:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tend to feel like they are aware I fancy over them... that makes me speechless or sometimes uncareful with my words...
2006-10-03 01:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had only one crush in my life and everytime i saw him or even see him to this day, I get all nervous and my demeanor changes. All my friends notice it and make fun of me and that makes it even worse. And when we talk...oh man the words never seem to come out right and i look like a big dork....but oh well. Some people have that effect on you,. and you dont know why. So the best advice i can give is whether you are shy, mean, nervous, goofy, or nasty, those things arent you. So try to put your best foot forward and show them the real you....i bet that would get us a lil further.
2006-10-03 01:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by dlite1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely - it's always easier to talk to people you don't care about. When you feel for someone it's sometimes difficult to always be yourself as you are scared that they might not like you. I think it's a confidence thing whereby if you like yourself you won't give a damn if they like you or not. I think in your case you are being nasty so that they can't get close and you cannot be rejected. Work on your self esteem a little and like yourself.
2006-10-03 01:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be very shy and nervous but I realise I missed to many opertunities because of it. I was scared of rejection. I later realised that rejection shouldn't be taken personally. Rejection has nothing to do with us but rather with the other person's perception of us.
2006-10-03 01:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really like someone, I end up avoiding them, I just get so shy and nervous that Ill say something stupid.....
2006-10-03 04:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sadbh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each man or woman famous it difficult yet you want to push your self or perhaps although your embarressed or cant imagine off some thing to assert push your self and the better you do.... have self belief me it receives a lot less complicated
2016-11-26 00:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hold off out of fear from asking them out for months and fall for them big time privately then when I do approach them I blurt out my feelings and scare them off!
2006-10-03 01:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually yes. I get uncomfortable and fidgety and I can't for the life of me think of anything to say to them.
2006-10-03 01:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by choklat_hart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I do, its like I can never say the right things!
2006-10-03 01:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing your quite young?? You wont act like that once you mature!
2006-10-03 01:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋