4 quite a while now ive been seeing this lad that i really like but the problem is i havent inturduce him 2 my parents! ive met his perents and thier both lovely and it went really well when i met them. i just dont how 2 tel my parents that i seeing him? can ne 1 help??????
2006-10-03 00:40:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
My ex girlfriend wouldn't tell her parents about us, she didnt think they would be too happy, it eventually lead to me leaving her as she was always giving times when she had to be home so they wouldn't find out,
so if you want to be with your bf, you should be honest with your parents, they'd be more hurt if they found out you weren't telling the truth, and if he makes you happy, they should be happy too :)
all the best, lee xx
2006-10-03 05:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by lee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Dont worry about it, I take the other side of things. Its none of there buisness who you decide to go out with. Tell them if you want, if not then dont. Its up to you and your boyfriend in my thoughts. I assume your under 18? If your over 18 who cares what they think anyways? If under, it still shouldnt matter, but id just tell them when there relaxed and not tired from work or what not. Better yet bring him over, im sure they will support whoever you have chosen- they prolly have more trust in you then you think! And if they dont, worst that happens is they say dont sew him- and trust me that will just increase the love between you two!
2006-10-03 01:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by allukcatsbaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding it from your parents will just make things worse later on, because eventually if you guys are together for long enough, your going to slip up and they are prolly going to find out. and plus, it puts alot of pressure on a relationship when you are hiding it from people like your parents. Just approach them in a mature manner and just tell them what is going on. If they disagree with the boy you are seeing, talk to them, see why they disagree, but don't act like a kid about it, you have to talk to them respective or else you'll get the whole "Because I said so" routine.
2006-10-03 00:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its up 2 you. Everyone can say do it or dont do it but deep down you know the answer.
In my case my parents dont know and i live with him but then i have my reasons why i havent told them.
i hope you find the answer deep down and do what you think is right good luck
2006-10-03 09:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely it relies upon on why she's afraid, does her mom think of she's too youthful to have a boyfriend? if so then she could consult along with her mom approximately her feeling mature sufficient to be in a courting. If that may no longer the case then she could basically tell her mom that she's been seeing this guy and she or he somewhat cares approximately him and could like her to fulfill him... her mom may be desirous about means of the belief of her desirous to introduce them to eachother
2016-10-18 10:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe deep down you think your parents will disaprove, if you do think that, just tell them anyway, what can they do, afterall they cant keep you captive so you will always be able to see him, its your choice, just give it a go, tell them first, prepare them init if they are bit fussy like that, then say nice things to them what he does for you. dont ever tell them when you have an argument if you dont want them to be invovled. if they see that he makes you happy and you dont argu, they are more than likely to let you get on with it. goodluck. **)
2006-10-03 00:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u?
How old is he?
I have just recently seperated from my g/friend as her parents didnt like me but u shouldnt let anyone split u up if they not like him? tell them how much you love him and how much he means to you and show them nothing they say or do can have much effect.
Hope u sort it.xxx Andi
2006-10-03 00:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by sexyminiclubman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always reluctant to introduce any girlfriends to my mum. She goes on a "protective one" as I call it and really starts interrogating them. F*cking hell mum I'm 28 and have lived away from home for 11 years. I'm not your little boy any more. My dad's cool though, he just says hello and that's it.
2006-10-03 00:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you worried about? Does he have two heads? Just say "Hi Mum, I've got a boyfriend - wanna meet him?"
I only have to worry about keeping my girlfriend a secret from my wife.
2006-10-03 00:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you haven't given any reason why you are finding it difficult to tell your parents you are seeing him? If it's nerves, or to do with age, then just go for it and I am sure your parents will be very supportive of your relationship.
2006-10-03 00:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by festy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋