My husband and i both virgins when we married, so we are shy buying sex toys or stuffs like that. How could we both overcome that shyness? We’re both in the stores when we're going to purchase something and when we are in the counter we’re hesitant to buy that thing. Btw we look young as a married couple that’s why other people thought we’re just bf gf things only.
2006-10-03 00:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Tis ok to be freaky................... part of the fun is shopping and buying..... no one is judging you in those stores. The wierd part is when the guy behind the counter opens your package and checks the batteries... now that's odd
2006-10-03 00:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you offended that they think you are still just dating? If you aren't, don't give it a second though. No one is going to care what you buy.
Start with sexy lingerie--that's the first step. If you want sex toys, ask for assistance. Explain that you want to put some more spice into your marriage but aren't 100% sure where to start. An employee will be able to help you. If you need to, go in to a store alone.
Really though, get over the guilt of buying a sex toy. Who cares if they think you are young or just dating? There are people who come in there and buy full bondage or sex toys you wouldn't even dream of touching. You know what? Who cares! This is about your relationship, not them.
If you really need tot buy sex toys but still don't have the guts, try on line stores. If you have cable watch "Sex Talk with Sue Johansen" for a little guidance.
2006-10-03 12:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get shy at the counter, browse the store, if you see a product that you like, take note of who makes it. Then go on line and browse there online store. They don't see your faces, and you can giggle, and act like a young shy couple and know one will ever know. A few websites that I have come across are benwa.com and calexotics.com and they both have toys. Just make sure that you buy the batteries before hand
2006-10-04 00:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, no one in a adult store cares if you are married or not.
The only way to overcome shyness is to just do it. Simply force yourselves to complete the purchase. After the first time it will get easier.
No one is going to judge you for buying sex toys, and really its no one else business.
2006-10-03 07:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how it feels. I clearly remember facing the same shyness while buying condoms from the Chemist immediately after my marriage... lol.
But let me assure you that this shyness goes on its own, though with a little effort to overcome it shall go even earlier.
2006-10-03 07:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in confusion. Sex is the matter of combining two bodies, minds and souls to make it one. Be natural, if u r newly married why do u want to play with artificial tools? Enjoy ur own god gifted assets in different styles and forms.
2006-10-03 07:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Biss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the people that work in those shops know that they sell sex toys, they see it hundreds of times a day and are not gonna remember your face, they won't judge you or be shocked at what you are buying, they know what those things are for, just go in there and buy what you like, they are there for your pleasure, so why not indulge if you fancy it?
2006-10-03 07:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are that uncomfortable buying things ( after all they are great fun when you actually buy them) then i recommend ordering from a mail order catalog that way they come to you in the mail in a private box so no one will know what you are getting. you will have to get over the shy part if you are wanting to get into toys.
2006-10-04 23:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by atthean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about what other people think! That is why they have sex shops, do ya think they don't know why you are there. C'mon Sex happens be free explore it
2006-10-03 08:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop going to stores and buy online...
and check out lots of websites about information...
if you want any sites, just gimme a shout...
2006-10-03 07:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋