my pal is always moving in and out of relationships just with in weeks. tried to talk to her but she imagines she will get the mr perfect. some men prove so loving to her but she expects more than they offer. could you please advise me on how to help her for she has seen more than enough men.
2006-10-03 00:24:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aisham:
Your pal, like you, carries in her heart the dreams and plans she has deveoped since her childhood for her lover and their life together. I suspect your friend is an extraordinary person, that simply will not compromise her dreams and allow them to be diminshed by anyone. And this is commendable. However:
I believe she has placed an undo confidence in the physical manefestation of love. Love is a powerful force, and the heart is quite capable of communication without physical contact. Perhaps it is time for your friend to pull away from her crowd of boyfriends, and quietly contemplate the dreams of her heart. Soon, love will find her.
And, to you, her good and caring friend, I give the same advice, if you have not already found your soul-mate. Love will find a way. Never underestimate the power of love!
2006-10-03 00:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will have to learn her lessons on her own, but maybe talk to her about possibly remaining single and without a boyfriend for a while so she can get used to the good feelings to be had by being alone and taking care of herself and knowing herself before she jumps into a relationship with another person who's wrong for her.
Might want to reword it. I am kinda blunt sometimes.
2006-10-04 07:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not think that there is much that you can do for your pal. Unfortunately, the only way that we learn and better our judgement when it comes to men is by getting our hearts broken and learning from our bad experiences. They make us grow. Let her kiss the frogs, and be there for her when she cries and point out where she went wrong, help her grow and with time she will know which types to avoid. Insisting that her man is wrong for her will only spoil your friendship. Point out the things that you dont like about him once in an impartial matter of fact way, and let her decide. Remember that its her life, not yours.
2006-10-03 07:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by fareen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU BETTER have a serious talk on different ocasions to let her know your thoughts; use you good or even bad expriences
2006-10-03 07:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by jean marc l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously is very spoiled or insecure in believing HE will leave her ( BAD EX? ) u cannot change her soo just LISTEN and SUPPORT her.that is why we have BEST FRIENDS
2006-10-03 07:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by borrowedtime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!!! There are too many fish in the sea...Why would she be sad...The right man will come...I'm sure of it...
2006-10-03 07:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by phew!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋