I had a hell teenagehood, I lived with both my parent 1 sister and a 3yrs nephew. i was the oldest i did all the house work and taking care of us. After school i cook, clean do my homework.When my parents come home after work they always ask why is the house dirty? What is I cook? My sister never clean she did nothing all she was allowed to do is to do her homework and study, becoz she was attending a very expensive school I did everythink for her.
my parents love her very much. when ever she was not around they would say if she was around she will do this and that right, becoz she is clever than me, I am stupid and bitme. I went to a very cheap school in the subburb per year U$20. I could not finish my secondary education and I found work as a waitress. i moved out to a flat I upgraded my markes and went to University got married and know I have a baby boy. They are well of people indeed they won't ask for any thing. my sister became a lawyer by profession. she do'nt know me anymor
2006-10-03 00:18:46 · 4 answers · asked by Nina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like you had a bad time, bu guess what there are people who have been through worse, so count yourself lucky in some cases. The thing is you have an education now you've been to university you have your own family, you should be happy. going over things about your past isn;t going to help you. Yes your sister may be well off and she may be a lawyer and has had a good education, but you dont know if shes happy! and you probably have that one over her now. Life is what you make it and I say you've made yours pretty good. So forget about the past concentrate on your family and making them happy!!
2006-10-03 00:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jo. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something only hurts if you let it. Now that you have created your own family, and have a child of your, you should not ever let him feel the things in life that hurt you. If your sister or parents have put you to the side then do the same, concentrate more on you first and your husband and child and live life to its fullest. Thinking of unpleasant past situations may affect those around you and your future so move on, and thin k of what you want out of this life.
2006-10-03 00:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by anastacioss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who has been through what you have would be hurting and feeling very bitter and angry. Maybe you should consider some form of counselling to allow you leave the past behind and live happy in the future. Good luck.
2006-10-03 00:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by starlet108 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be grateful to the Almighty for you have a sister though she doesnt care. personally i lost my only sister and just miss some one to refer to as sister. its really trying for me. however meet as a family and resolve this. make them understand that though you were not as bright, you are part of the family. wish you the best.
2006-10-03 00:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by aisham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋