how far i can obey my Dad ?

Question

Since i can not ask this question from my friends face to face i ask you all friends to let me know what should i do? please help me.
I like my dad very much.and I am the second girl of home.i am 18 years old.my mother died six months ago.and after one month ,my father saw me nude when i was taking a shower.he is 45 years old.and asked me to start sex with him.and he is doing it all the week ends again and again,and since i like him and don't want to bother him i obey him all the time.now he asks me to suck him,make him *** and clean him and most of the time he has sex with me too.But what bothers me is that he started to have sex with me in my *** hole too, which it really hurts me and it is hard to handle because of pains.please let me knwo what to do.i don't want to go to police or let the people knows that he does this to me. so what should i do ?????

Answer 1

If this is a serious question, you need to take serious measures What is happening to you is WRONG. Your father should know better...he is breaking the law and he is sexually abusing you. He is your father he should not be doing anything sexual with you. He is taking advantage of his role in your life.

You should not be handling this on your own. You need some professional intervention. I know you dont want to go to the police, but it is a very serious situation you are in. Without your father knowing, you need to ring a crisis line...they will give you the telephone numbers of sexual assault counsellors who will be able to help you. You and your sister both need to get away from this man. You should not like your father. You should know what he is doing is terribly wrong. If you dont do something about it now, then your father will think he can get away with it. He could turn on your sister, if he already hasn't. You need to protect both you and your sister from further abuse....You have to tell someone about it. This is not your fault...you have not encouraged your father...you have obeyed his wishes....a sexual assault counsellor will understand everything...she will understand you. If you dont want to ring a crisis line...look in your phone book for a sexual assault service in or around your area.

I cant emphasis enough how important it is to tell someone you trust....a sexual assault counsellor would be the perfect person to tell. She will help you and your sister out of this horrible abusive relationship with your father. Please do it soon before your sister is abused as well...unless, of course, it is already happening. This is a very serious situation.

Answer 2

Darlin', your father has put you in a position where you are the vicim of abuse. You don't have to be underage to be abused. And now he hurts you.

Think about an adult who you trust most in this world. Go
to them and tell them what is happening. Then ask for help. I'm sorry you have to tell someone, I know it is embarrassing, but you are doing this for the other children in the family, too....not just yourself, ok? And this is a good way to protect them. Plan how you and the children are to get out with this adult. They can help you. (As a last resort you can go to the police yourself. Most likely the kids will go to foster care. Ask if you can all stay together.)

I know it is scary. You have been put in a very adult position. You are going to have to make decisions based on what you know is right, not on how you feel. Do the things that gain you independence. Find a job, ask for help with housing, ask for any assistance the state can give. The sooner you are on your feet, the more you can protect yourself and your siblings. No one has the right to abuse you. You know what is happening is wrong. Seek help, it will be ok, ok? It'll be ok. Don't panic. Know your path, follow it, and keep your eyes on your goal: to live without abuse in your life. You can do it.

Answer 3

unfortunately, many people abuse the internet and make things up, just for the sake of doing it. I am truly sorry if this is something real that is happening to you because you are going to get a lot of tough answers here. If this is happening to you, you need to get out of that situation. There is no reason for a father to make his daughter have any type of sexual act with him. He needs help and so do you. If this is a joke, then you REALLY do need help.

Answer 4

I don't understand you!
On one hand you let him get away with something that is illegal, in almost every country of this planet, on the other hand you scream it out on the World Wide Web for 20 million people to read...?!
The reason why he is getting away with what he is doing is because he knows you are a coward.....

Answer 5

I don't know what country you are in, but you are talking about incest. In the US it's illegal and should be reported to the police. He is raping and abusing you and you should stop it immeditately. However, if you're now complaining because he is f**ing you in the a**, then you have been complicit in this for too long. You should have stopped it when it started. Cut this off and tell him to find someone else.

Answer 6

Your dad is not mormal.He needs grace and help.If what you are saying is true,you are advise to look for a secure shelter from the authorities A.S.A.P
It is not normal.

Answer 7

omg if this is true, you need to go to the police, this is child rape, or even rape in itselfs, please do this and go to the police, i know you dont want to, but imagine if he is doing this to your sister, would you like it done to her..this is wrong and he needs to be stopped..and fast...please do this and go to the police, once you have, he wont be able to hurt you anymore..

Answer 8

ii think u should justtt leave ur dad justt nowww he is dammm sickkk and needs mentall hospitall

Answer 9

move out

Answer 10

u sure about this or is it a wind up