my bro-in-law is very kiddish.he is one year elder to me (25 yrs) but still he revolts to me when i ask him to help me out by keeping the house clean.for example,if i ask him to keep the newspaper in its place(he scatters it all over),he scatters it right in front of me in a very bad condition.
he says i have that disorder of keeping things in order.i scrub the bathroom everyday and he dirties it by not wearing thahe bathroom chappals..not flushing,keeping towels inside etc.i too am working..i find it tough if ppl in the house don't co-operate.he does many things like these.my sis-in-law is 1 yr younger to me and she still feels she is a kid.she doesnt help me if i don't ask her to(i ask her to help isn the smallest of chores)..i feel as though i am begging for help.inspite of being fully stressed at office,i do evthg for them..i cook,i pack tiffin for them,i scrub the bathrooms,i clean up the 3 bedrooms...i keep the house tidy etc..but still they find it unnecessary...waht to do?
2006-10-02 23:05:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Would you like to come and live with me, my house needs a neat freak.
2006-10-02 23:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your sister and brother-in-law are inconsiderate and don't care about you or your feelings. Your housekeeping standards are light years apart. If this is your house, you have the right to stand your ground and demand (nicely) that they help more with housekeeping. You can ask them to leave if they don't comply with your requests. If this is their house, there isn't alot you can do about it, except leave. If money is an issue, you might have to live with this situation until you can get your own place. You can also try going on strike. The place will be dirty until someone breaks and decides to clean it up. Sorry there is no easy way.
2006-10-02 23:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere on your question have you ever made any point out of the undeniable fact that your 2nd niece became into married to her boy pal. yet you assert that the information of their marriage would be taken coolly by potential of your brother-in-regulation. i assume that even nonetheless your sister and brother-in-regulation are actually not conscious of your niece's pre-marital being pregnant or next marriage, they understand approximately her twist of fate, even nonetheless out of your question it rather is amazingly perplexing to appreciate as to what precisely they are blind to - their daughter's being pregnant or the twist of fate. As a marriage is going to ensue at their homestead presently, it would be pretty unwise to disclose the information of her previous being pregnant at the instant and ruin the oftentimes chuffed ecosystem. and because your niece's husband and baby have the two died regrettably, i don't think of that breaking the long maintained secrecy now or every time interior the destiny will serve any objective different than bringing extra discomfort to her mothers and fathers' minds. even nonetheless, if her mom by potential of any probability, does come to appreciate approximately her being pregnant, i don't think of she could be too strict or unkind on her daughter pondering your niece's rather unlucky actual subject. All suggested and achieved, do not tell her mothers and fathers, a minimum of in the mean time. you have a great style of time to tell them no count if it rather is in any respect needed.
2016-10-15 11:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go into detail, just not the ones I need.
Whose house is it?
If it's your house, kick the nasty b*stards out!
If it's their house, then Move!!
If you read the paper, when you're done with it, throw it in the trash.
Tell them constantly to pick up after themselves, to clean up their messes and don't let them rest until they do it.
You need to start riding their butts about this until either you or they move out. Don't ask them to do it, TELL them they WILL do it or you won't shut up about it.
2006-10-02 23:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can understand ur problem....what i say is....for people who r like this,,,u need to make them to knoe the things hou it wil b without uuu,,,so i advice u to take a room separately only 4 u n be there 4 atleast 1month,,,u dont tel ur bro n sis in law where u r...n pls dont even cal them,,,dont gv ur salary to them,,totally u be away 4rm them 4 1month,,,then surely i believe they change up there behaviour n they wil co;operate with u,,,im sure tht this plan works out if u implement,,,,make ur heart stubborn and runout...
2006-10-02 23:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by navs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA!
Get used to whatever he is doing so that you wont feel bad when there will be some one in your life, similar to your BiL
Thanx!!!
2006-10-02 23:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick him out
2006-10-02 23:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u also dont do any thing 1 day.........every body come in there right position........or then also they dont come in line.......kick them out.......hard..........specially kick ur bro-in-law hard on his back........from my side.........& ur bye best of luck.......
2006-10-02 23:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
move
2006-10-02 23:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋