Whenever we are out walking (with the dog or to school), my son thinks that he can just go anywhere. I tell him off but he just thinks that its a big joke, Ive tried bribing him with treats but none work.
Does anyone have any advice or been in my situation (will he grow out of it?)
Lol.
2006-10-02 22:57:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
He will go in peoples gardens, on the beach, in the shopping centre.
Even on the girl next door sunbathing!!!!
Help.
2006-10-02 22:58:52 · update #1
when at home explain to him what is right and wrong, (i know you've already done that but do it again). when he uses the toilet, praise him, do a little dance, sing a song about it, give him a treat, when he dose it outside, do nothing, no reaction, don't speak to him, and stick to it, he will soon learn that good behaviour gets rewards.
2006-10-02 23:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by teenylollypopuk 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, he will outgrow this behavior, but only if you put a stop to it.
-You could monitor when he goes and get him on a routine. If he's on some sort of routine of using the restroom, chances are he will not have anything to squirt out on the streets.
-Teach him about public nudity. I'm not saying take him to a nudist colony but instead have a police officer talk to him. He will probably scare your boy into not doing it by saying something like, "If you do it again, I'll arrest you and put you in jail."
-Whenever your son 'goes' outside, just use the old method of giving him a good slap on the butt. Then once you do so, tell him that you don't want him to keep peeing everywhere.
-The last option is you could just put him back in diapers. It sounds crazy but tell him, "If you don't want to go in the toilet, then i'll just do this." I don't really recommend this option but you could use it as a scare tactic.
2006-10-03 06:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by nmk9543 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you bribe him with treats. Punish his Ar*e. I can not believe that you let him get away with it in the first place. Take away everything he owns and give it back after he has spent a month being a productive member of society, this is not a person who pees on others. Let him know if he wants to act like a dog you will treat him like one
2006-10-03 21:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son is exactly the same but he doesn't pee on anyone though. I am at a loss with how i can get him to hold it until we find a toilet but at the end of the day its better than wet pants and trousers and it will do his bladder no good if he holds it for too long.
Good luck
2006-10-03 04:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling him off isn't cutting it, explain to him this is not acceptable, he has seen this somewhere, does Daddy do this too? Be firm and don't bribe, take away a privilege or a favorite when it happens and soon he will figure out you are the parent, not him.
2006-10-03 00:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well done him, your lucky your son is not peeing his pants. But i understand what you mean, Once my son learned that he could pee on his his own boy did he go for it. What i did was took him to the big toilet and i put his small bath duck down the toilet and told him to pee on that, (don't think i am being funny but he loved it and though it was so much fun) when he was done and out of the bathroom i would remove the duck with gloves on of course and went he wanted to go again he was ask for duckie, My son is 28 now and he is training he own son the same way.
2006-10-02 23:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Omg, ummm no drink 20 minutes before walks? Tighten his leash? Rub his nose in it?
2006-10-02 22:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by melanie_71878 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you watching while he pulls down his pants? That is the time to step into action and pull them back up. Take him home to use the potty. Always make him potty before walks.
2006-10-02 23:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ah the joy of having little boys at home no big deal as lnog as the kid is not over 10 i say its okay
2006-10-04 14:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by chuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might know it’s getting on your nerves and is trying to see how far he can push you, obviously you are a bit embarrassed by this tell him you will make him wear a nappy if he continues to keep doing it in public, and reward him if you go out and he doesn’t do it.
He will grow out of it eventually.
2006-10-02 23:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by carla s 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋