what do u do when your lover does not turn u on no more..?

Answer 1

remember why you were in love in the first place. what people forget so often is that you put up with things, but the person in love with you tolerates things as well. its easy to forget things as time goes on in a relationship. you either get too busy, too tired or too involved to communicate and you feel ...maybe your taken for granted or have changed when the reality is your not getting any attention anymore.

try dating again..really dating. try learning something new about each other. try talking and communicating and try volcalizing or better still, writing down the reasons for your boredom. you would be amazed when you examine ideas in print how silly some seem or unimportant.

good luck

Answer 2

Well I think the love you have for your lover has died. Love some times dies gradually. You might have heard love never dies offcourse there is love that never dies but some times it dies not suddenly but through time.

So if your lover do not turn you on any more means that you have to stop your relationship it may be a bit difficult though.

Answer 3

Tell him frankly and try to invent, devise and come up with new ways and techniques of turning each other on.

Answer 4

There could be few reasons but what you need to do is .......... dont wait for him to do all the Pre-Sex activity............be more practical and involve and anticipate and that would do for the both of you!!!

Answer 5

Just be honest. Tell her(?) that you just don't feel anything for her anymore. It will be very hard, but you both will be a lot better off.

Answer 6

Maybe try and be aroused someplace else and take out your built in passion on him.

Answer 7

Come over here, and i will make you feel butterflies and kangaroos in your tummy baby.

Answer 8

Give me a call.

Answer 9

control -alt - del

Answer 10

dump them