you've been through many ordeals with this guy and feel really close to him. but you feel like you're bestfriends more than lovers. you also don't want to stop being friends wit him.
2006-10-02 22:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no easy way.just tell them coz yu are just worsting somebodys tym.so just do it and dont feel bad.yu dont love them no more yu cant change that, yu just gotta be honest.
2006-10-02 22:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by ruru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how u dated him 4 so long without loving him...... but i think that u r seriously gonna break his heart.... i hope he isnt in love with u cuz it will b painful...i dont kno if he'l wanna b ur frnd after u break up cuz had 5yrs in which u could have broken up.
guess m not helping am i???sorry bout that
m just sayin that b prepared 4 d worst
dont break up in a public place....if ur a chicken u can do it through the phone but its not the best way
try tellin him that u feel more frndship than love 4 him n u've been through a lot wid him but want 2 b frndz
maybe he'l ask u if therez some1 else 4 whom ur leavin him....
or b optimistic n think that maybe he'l b glad 4 u or secretly wish that u both break up
ne wayz good luck..
2006-10-02 23:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty let him know how you feel and that you don't want to be with him anymore, but you would still like to remain friends...Let him know that you guys have grown apart and you want to experience other relationships... He may not want to stay friends with you right away because it is an awkward situation and the only way for him 2 get over you is to not see or talk to you for a while so wait a while before still trying to pursue a friendship good luck
2006-10-02 22:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady buddy is like that (in basic terms no longer basically 3) :)). As I see it, it is as much as you. in case you experience like it's time to make some differences on your existence and get your issues at the same time then you definately could chosen. that is extremely complicated to try this yet you may!. in case you do no longer experience you may elect to try this, it is ineffective to even try. It could come from interior you.(no longer buddies, family members, etc) From my journey that's the terror of loneliness that drives us all in having different family members. have faith, self belief and genuine friendship is what you would be lacking. chosen the guy you may quite spend an prolonged time at the same time quite than the "loopy" guy. desire this facilitates
2016-12-26 08:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by levatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you want a break for a little while because you have alot going on in ur life then while on ur break u can decide if that is what you truely want and if it is then you can just tell him the truth and hope for the best but if u decide to stay then u always have that option open.
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2006-10-02 22:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him right after sex, then at least he feels satisfied, and it won't hurt him as much.
From a guy, trust me. Do it, just don't get pregnant.
2006-10-02 22:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its v v difficult situation - not easy stuff. best of luck
2006-10-02 22:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋