I am stuck between my wife and my mother. We live together and I can't move out.
I seriously can't choose because both of them have equal faults.
What should I do? What would you do?
2006-10-02 22:26:38 · 22 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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U have any kids???
if u have any angry with ur wife in this matter, definetly ur kids were affect .
2006-10-02 22:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by mallimalar_2000 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you took a wife she should have become your priority. You should stand by her unless she is way off and wrong when it comes to your mother. The only solution for you is to get out of your parents house. Why did you get married if you couldn't afford to live on your own? Being married means being grown up and mature, you aren't that if you are still at home.
2006-10-03 06:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by channielynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife without a doubt.
Your wife might leave you for choosing your mother and can you live the rest of your life as a divorced man living with his mum?
2006-10-03 06:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well buddy, this is an universal problem. There are very few cases where no such problem exists...
On one hand u have someone who has given birth to you and brought u up. And on the other hand you have someone with whom you are to spend your entire life.
My opinion would be to follow your heart. And do what you feel is right. And make either of the person understand why you did what you did. And ofcourse if anyone of them gets angry pamper her back...
2006-10-03 05:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by jk7k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This problem is universal. You cannot take sides. Show some understanding to your mother. At the same time, let not your wife feel that you are partial to your mother. It is indeed a tight rope walking. Love all.
2006-10-03 05:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mother is first wife is next
2006-10-04 06:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't chose between them cause they position is different. One woman is mother from your kids and your partner in like or dislike all your spen of life. And the other is woman whose engendering you, without her you wouldn't in this world. So respecting and loving to both of them don't choose between them.
2006-10-03 06:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Retno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move out with your wife and pay your mother a visit once a weekl.
2006-10-03 05:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by kido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2006-10-04 05:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by gurushabad1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have to keep a balance between the two.
The best thing you can do is to obey your mother and guide your wife, there will be no problem at all.
2006-10-03 05:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing You live as a happy man! Congratulations!
Perhaps try to find a man for Your mother !(= a (Your) father or any man else!)
2006-10-03 20:33:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋