im am 19 years old. my parents is realy strict and at fisrst i was not allouw seeing my boyfriend but after seeing him for 2 years without them knowing they finily came to their sences and said it is ok for me seeing him.. but now im am aloud to see him but now they come up with this simple rule that im olnly alloud out 3 times a week and besides that i have to be home at 11. they treat me like a litle girl and if been putting up with this for 2 years and so has my boyfriend, i dont think any other guy would wait and put up with this for so long. so now he get us a apartment and want me to move in. ut my parents say if i do im not alloud back and there wil be no family bonds. oh and the reason that they didny want me seeing him back then was because him 5 years older than me! how should i handle this?
2006-10-02 21:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your parents are right. My goodness, you can't spell, you have horrible grammar, and let's not even SPEAK of your punctuation! How in the world would you be able to get a job and support yourself? Your best bet is to stay home and allow your parents take care of you!
2006-10-03 00:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you are an adult now. It's your life and you have to make your own choices. Your parents can't control you forever. That said, living on your own or with a boyfriend can be very difficult. Consider the expenses and everything beforehand. You will have to buy food, transportation, and everything else. If you do not currently have a job, you will probably have to get one. It's up to you, maybe you should try it out. Just keep in mind that you might be supporting yourself if things don't work out between you and your boyfriend. You'll need to be prepared for a situation like that.
2006-10-02 22:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what your parents are saying girl, youshould not ignore them.they know better than you and understood you better than you do.Though what they are doing might be wrong but there is an element of truth and decency in it.
You are not expected to move into the house with someone you are not married to
You still need to understand some issues about life which involve, pregnanacy,childbearing,marriage etc so that you could make a good relationship
Just be patient with your parents
2006-10-02 22:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough situation ...
If your bf were closer to your age I think they might be cooler about it. But it's hard to say, some parents are just like that.
You should try talking to them before you make any rash decisions. Remember, if you move in with your bf and then you guys break up, you'll probably have to go back home.
But I think you need to sit down and think about something. What kind of a creepy fcuk is your boyfriend??? I'm 22 and that would be a little weird for me to date someone your age.
2006-10-02 22:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by TheFunniestGuyInPants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are almost 20???? why do you let them run your life? Thats funny you have a curfue. if the guy your with wants to get you an apt um you have 2 choices grow up or be a child forever.
2006-10-02 22:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and you don't have to hurry up with any decision
and for your parents you are always they little girl as fore your boyfriend if hi love you hi will not make a trouble about anything
related to your parents just Wait a little beet longer everything
will come in its place and your parents will realize that you are not a child Any more just .......wait .and you will see
2006-10-02 22:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by lule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time for you to move out. But to move in with your boyfriend, is the wrong way to go,, the reason why is it is like going from the fry pan in to the fire.. there are some thing in life you have to learn. by yourself Like taking care of yourself. paying your own bills, cloths, and food. once you learn to manage your own Money, then in time you can move your boyfriend,
2006-10-02 22:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your decision, your parents are just worried about you however, they dont want their baby being taken away by the "big bad wolf", it parental insinct. im sizteen and i've been going with my fianceé for five years, im moving in with him next month becasue i reassured my parents that i'll be fine. if you think like a child you'll be treated like a child
2006-10-02 22:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by karyn n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm your parent: Get married properly and you can do whatever you want to do with your life after. We'd have no further say after that.
BUT, you're still our child and whatever troubles you wil be in in the future that you want us involved, we'd be there in the thick of it... simply because we love you--unconditionally.
2006-10-02 22:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is your life live it the way you want too.Trust me I was going thru the same thing..My parents still try to tell me what to do and I am 27 years old.Just do what your heart tells you.
2006-10-02 22:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by ladymacbeth789 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋