Friends say am supportive person &there 4 u no matter wht & kindhearted.But there has been an incident where a guy who liked me,told me tht whn I talk softly(tone wise)on phone,I sound so feminine,incredibly sweet & if I can keep it ths way always!Frankly,I talk softly in different situations,like if am comfortin someone,in romantic conversation or if my boss is around!Thats so fake!am direct & honest(but never rude),after my break up wth my fiancé long back,I admit tht I became practical,holdin my emotions inside & swing away feelings tht can cause me any pain.I answer back rude people just 2 keep thm away frm me or bring a person’s attention 2 somethin said/done which annoyed me,but wth z intentions 2 hve clear & tension free relation wth z person.Thn it ws mentioned 2 me again but ths time,I think z guy ws only flirtin coz we r only frnds,or ws it an advice?my sis told me tht my looks r 2 soft &feminine,so it might b z reason y guys find it hard 2 relate btwn my personality &looks.
2006-10-02 21:49:57 · 5 answers · asked by Tulip 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be true to yourself, Tulip without harming anyone else, but don't be what others want you to be, or what you think they want you to be.
If someone doesn't like you for who you are then that is their rubbish, so you don't have to please them. But if several friends/family have a common criticism of you then listen to them and look inside of yourself to see what it is that is not nice about you - if at all!
As for rude people don't answer them back, they're only looking for a reaction, ignore them where you can, they don't deserve your attention
and to not acknowledge their existence is far more painful to them than any kind of cutting remark you may think of.
P.S.: Honesty and sincerity works for me.
2006-10-02 22:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be as boring as hell if you were soft the whole time. Any guy who wants you to be ultra feminine 24x7 is obviously a bit afraid he won't be able to deal with your masculine side ie. he's a bit of a wuss
2006-10-02 21:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B honest to your self ...
2006-10-02 23:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you feel better doing
2006-10-02 21:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by qwerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont no
2006-10-02 21:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋