I have this friend who I really like. But he does some crazy things. He rather be with his boys than be with me and he rather do things more with his friends than me. He always saying that he doesn't have time for a relationship, but he has time with his boys. He finds time to have sex and stuff but less quality time with me. Sometimes I wonder is he gay or what?
2006-10-02 21:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by The Queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think he is gay, just have a word with him, maybe he doesnt know how to be in a relationship properly, or how to show how he feels, i know from experience, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 years now and we never went anywhere or done anything together for a year and a half, i was a bit young to be having sex, but we always just kissed and he went off with his friends. it annoyed me and i thought for a while he was gay, but when i talked to him, i found out that he was really very shy and didnt know how to act around girls.
However, if he is just using you for sex, then i'd get rid of him, quickly and calmly (when i say calmly i mean, dont do what i did to a former boyfriend and throw a few (7) plates at him)
2006-10-02 21:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by karyn n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he is having sex with you he is not gay, however, he has told you he does not want a relationship, so, it should be very painfully clear. He wants you when he wants you, and he does not want to be tied down to a commitment. You can either wait around in hopes that this will change or you can move on and find someone who has the same ideas of a relationship. He enjoys the freedom of hanging out with his friends and having sex with you whenever he wants and knows you will be available because you are more interested in him then he is in you. Sorry, just my opinion, however, if you step back and look at the situation you will probably see if for yourself. So, it all really depends on what you want, sex, or a relationship seems as though he is not going to give you both. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-10-02 21:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know that men never grow up and they would rather play with the boys than hang with a girl. I've been married 3 times and trust me they are all the same that way. He's not gay - he's just a guy. When you learn this, it will make your life easier. Just let him go play.
2006-10-02 21:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by MrsMike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong or gay about wanting to hang out with your friends.
You say he has time to have sex with you, don't you think that is fair indication that he is straight?
Maybe, and I don't mean to be rude... he just has more fun with his mates than he does with you?
2006-10-02 21:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe all he wants from u is sex. does he check out other guys does he always want to have anal sex with u if he does than he might be gay
2006-10-02 21:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a typical macho, my friend! Men like to be with men- buddies, drinking, sport and stuff like that. Gay men like to be with girls because they share common interests.
2006-10-02 21:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds suspicious to me. I dont think I could stay with a man that is fingering his own ***. Somethings up with that.
2006-10-02 21:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by flaphen f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip him and tie him up on a chair. Play some gay porn and see if he's getting an erection......
2006-10-02 22:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by hugh_cheung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not gay at all.
But he is using you as a sex toy.
2006-10-02 21:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be he like to be with groups not only one i think he isn't gayu should make some fun with him not only sex
2006-10-02 21:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by vampire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋