You and your boyfriend are not getting on, he doesnt seem to care about how to please you in the bedroom and doesnt want to commit to a relationship, you both have a son together, still leaving with parents and he wont move out and live in place of your own together he wont even sil beside you on sofa or even give you a hug when you's are alone together, yet you are starting to get feeling bk for your ex who always made you happy in the bedroom and gave you as much kove and attention as you wanted, he would commit to you but his only problem is he drinks to much, but since you's finished he has stopped the drinking a good bit, and he still loves you and hasnt had a relationship since you's finished do you think it could work if you went bk? my current bf, is a great father and a good person but obviouly doesnt feel the same in the realtionship as he did? what advice would u give, sorry abt the easy...
2006-10-02 21:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by comeo!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a tough one. Thing is you need to get over sx thing. And if you want to get back to that other guy, he drinks, and he won't stop. If you are ok to live with an alcoholc then go ahead. But i'd rather live without sx, which i do quite happely, than with an alcoholic.
2006-10-02 21:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the boyfriend you say you have now seems like a real jerk.. and if he is still living with his parents leave him there you don't want him in your house. he is apparently lazy or he would be out working and have his own place and be taking care of you and your son.. dump his butt.
The ex boy friend you say drinks to much so do you really want a drunk around your little one..
I would say you got a couple of losers there . get on with your life.find a decent guy that would take care of you and your son the way that you should be taken care of..
You obviously aren't any better at picking men than i am so just enjoy your alone time for a while and the presence of you son..
2006-10-03 04:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down & have a heart to heart talk with your BF. see what his feelings are about u and your relationship. Sometimes men are just like that & they don't even realize that they r doing these things. It sounds to me like he is either not realizing what he's doing wrong or he's just staying with u because of your child. Life is to short to be in an unhappy relationship. If you & your ex still have all these feelings for one another & you have talked to your boyfriend & his feelings have changed, then maybe start slow with your ex bf, don't just jump into a serious relationship. Because if it didn't work out it wouldn't only be you, it would also affect your child. Take care
2006-10-03 04:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off why do you think you have to have a man by your side.
you have a child to take care of...
you have to stop putting your sexual needs above everything...
all of this energy you are using to get your needs met, is taking time away from your child....
your br. obviously does not want to be with you.. he will not touch you or sit by you.... how can you call him your bf if he wont live with you. wont touch you . or wont kiss you....
and as for the man who drinks to much.. no you do not need a man in your life who drinks to much...
right now. you need to forgo all MEN. and work on yourself esteem for you and your child....
take the time for youself and get some counseling....
i dont get it why a women thinks she has to have a man...
there is more to life then sex......
your sex drive is what got you where you are now...
2006-10-03 04:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Do you want to stay or go back to your ex? Or you do not know yet?
2006-10-03 04:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt go back i believe if u put the garbage on the side of the road thats where it should stay..
2006-10-03 04:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No
2006-10-03 04:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding?
2006-10-03 04:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by mark r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋